Sunday, March 1, 2026

Success journal 1183: short and intense weekend with 2 kids while Jenny away

It has been a while since I get to spend time with my kids. Get to spend time with them fully. 

Brought Jayden to rugby on Sunday morning, sally brought JJ to gymnastics class. 

Had a good conversation with Noah's dad, about how he juggles 3 kids for rugby. 

After a short conversation, head to the nearby mall for a short breakfast. Jayden bumped his head. Head coach Garrett brought him to the medic to check in case of concussion. Jayden is a strong boy. 

After rugby, Jayden and I headed to toa payoh, I did my hair treatment in two herbs for 38. After my two herbs session, we then go Novena for our KFC lunch. Spent about 40 for a meal of 4. Is not cheap to feed a family now. 

After our lunch, we took a short nap. I slept with JJ. 

After our nap, I did English with Jayden, and we then brought our sports gears to the playground to do badminton. 

After badminton we went for ice cream in burnt cones. As they are doing ACS founders' day promotion. Loved their pistachio flavours. 

After ice cream, we went home and Jayden did his science. After our science past paper we then had our dinner and continued with piano and dancing. Bless him for the hardwork. 

Jenny reached Singapore from her riding trip in JB. I went out to fetch her from novena food centre. We had a great talk and ended the day. 

Thursday, February 26, 2026

Success journal 1182: Returning to routine, post cny

Controlling my diet, exercise, badminton 2 or 3 times a week. Getting my time back for myself is critical 

Connect with Jenny 
Connecting with my boys after work 
Controlling my emotion 
Maintaining my investment 
Hold on to my crypto 
Connecting with my parents and brother
Connecting with my friends 

They are all part of my life 

Jenny and I went to see a house  about 1.3m, she is interested to buy. As our investment in Australia is stabilising. 

I am grateful we are stabilising now. 

My helper sally needs to be healthy too. 


Sunday, February 22, 2026

Success journal 1180: Change your life, add value to people around you, work as a team

Be healthy 
Eat healthily 
Connect with my self 
Read more 
Invest more

Friday, February 20, 2026

Success journal 1179:Parents flying back, back to work

It was a long holiday for my self

Spending time with my family 

Do a badminton session .

Bought lottery tickets 

Gained a few kilos 

Signed up for chatgpt 
Signed up for capcut

Wednesday, February 18, 2026

Success journal 1178: Parents in SG for CNY

They touched down last Saturday, I went to airport to fetch them. Spent a good time with them to catch up. 

Good to have parents around

They have been showering me with love and joy

My dad has been a muji fans, brought them to Muji for a meal. 


Tuesday, February 10, 2026

Success journal 1177: Family support, life at 40s

I must control my diet 
Badminton must continue
Investment need to go on
Health need to take care 
Stress level to be controlled 

Thanks to my family support. I have no need to compare with others 

Sunday, February 8, 2026

Success journal 1176: KL tigers rugby weekend

It was a great weekend with the family, despite Jayden's  team didn't win any silverware back home. 

Some teams become stronger

I took a bus from boon lay Friday night 1845hrs, starmart express. Not bad. And reach KL South station around 0110hrs

Took a grab and reach hotel around 0130hrs.

Woke up the next day around 0600hrs, had breakfast with Jenny and Jayden and we headed to the pitch in Bukit Kiara equestrian club. 

Sunday we took a 1910hrs flight back home 


Thursday, February 5, 2026

Success journal 1175: Badminton and new friends

I am grateful that I am able to connect with people through badminton. Meeting new friends in places i go. 

Wednesday, February 4, 2026

Success journal 1174: take care of my health

This year I must take care of my body. Eat well, rest well and exercise. 

Monday, February 2, 2026

Success journal 1173: Grateful post

I am grateful that I am doing well
Healthy 
Supportive wife and beautiful kids 

My helper has been also a main contributor in taking care my kids 

Thanks. 

Sunday, February 1, 2026

Success journal 1172: Tough live, tanking working through weekend

My wife arrange couple spa yesterday, but due to work arrangement I had to cancel it. She went the couple spa herself. Poor her. 

She also arranged all the family matters and has to ensure all this family matters herself. 

Saturday, January 31, 2026

Success journal 1171: Staying strong, family support, tough life

It is not easy for me to take this,
To be away from my family for the weekend. 

Friday, January 30, 2026

Success Journal 1170: Working through my weekend

Is that to escape from reality? 

Was commented my slides were not nice enough 

Thursday, January 29, 2026

Wednesday, January 28, 2026

Tuesday, January 20, 2026

Success journal 1167: Connect with the right mindset, going back at 6pm

I am grateful to have a strong support from my boss whom I respect. 

And also a project with resources. Never go into a project where there isn't any money left. 

I left at 6pm yesterday without guilt for the 1st time. Of course my bosses checked on me 

Sunday, January 18, 2026

Success journal 1166: Study investment, connect with investing friends, quality over quantity

I am grateful that I have got great support surrounding me. I don't have many friends and my circles are getting smaller and smaller. 

Keep those quality friends 

Keep journaling 

Keep reading articles and magazine about investment. 

I watch investment related videos during my lunch time 


Saturday, January 17, 2026

Success journal 1165: 2026 fishing and kayaking trip, Shaun wedding KK trip

Grateful that, I get to have the energy, time and money to do all these trips. 

Kk trip has been great. Mainly is to catch-up with my family. Get to connect with the Hung hung family, Peter's, ah man and guan eng and my aunties like Jo, Sharon, ping, Michelle etc. 

Of course most importantly is to connect with my brother and parents. 

In general, people are concerned with my weight which I have to take it seriously and to stay healthy. 


Friday, December 19, 2025

Success journal 1164: it has been a while, Jayden got eagles award, 5% gain for the year

As the year is coming to an end. This year has been a good year to me. 

I got lucky draw 1st prize in D&D 
Project gratuity 
Good bosses taking care of me and trust me 
Supporting wife 
Lovely and well performing kids 

Jayden has got eagles award at P3. That is like top 5% of his age group. 

My portfolio has gained 5% this year and hoping for a smooth remaining days. 

Grateful. 

Health has been not in a very good 
Cholesterol is high, 


Thursday, September 25, 2025

Success journal 1163: Driving through hardwork

Is tough, work is tough. Life is tough. 


Wednesday, September 10, 2025

Success journal 1161: JJ is 4 year-old

I am grateful that my 2 kids are healthy and lovely. Yesterday was JJ bday. He has been full of energy and cheeky. 

Although sometimes can be annoying but mostly cute and adorable and high energy. 

He always welcome me home and say good bye when I leave for work. 

Brought him out for ice cream yesterday and last weekend, sally cooked him a feast and bought some present for him. 
Grateful 

Friday, September 5, 2025

Success journal 1160: A perfect weekend

Jenny and the kids are away

Woke up at around 9am went to united square for McDonald's 

Then joined my friends for potluck to celebrate Koko Tien's bdae. 

Catched up with the Nottingham gang, played rummy and had cakes 

After that went home and joined a strong LI bishan club house by K. 

After badminton, I went back to rest for a while and went to casino with CCY. Won about 900 and came home. 

Sunday morning, woke up late, had some quick breakfast and went to OCBC for badminton. 

After badminton came home to rest. 

Joined another social game with CCY and his friends in kovan. 

Rushed back home to meet Jenny and kids. They came back from bintan. 

Friday, August 29, 2025

Success journal 1159: Finally a weekend is coming

Work has been tough, managing people is not easy

I got two in my team. 1 is typical gen z from China. The other 1 is soft and is not from construction industry 

Wednesday, August 27, 2025

Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Success journal 1157: Working late is not cool

Gone are the days when you work late and they treat you like a hero 

Tuesday, August 19, 2025

Success journal 1156: Determined, resilient

I am determined and determined

The role of a leader is to create an environment for people to thrive. 

Take care of the people around me 

Especially my family 

Eat less than I burn 
Spend less than I make 
Invest the difference 
Efficient with time 

Saturday, August 16, 2025

success journal 1155: tough life

Eat less than I burn 
Spend less than I earn 
Invest the difference 
Efficient with time 

Tuesday, August 12, 2025

Success journal 1154: Getting use to the long travel

I am traveling about 90mins to and from for my work. 

Getting used to it. 

Less time with family. 


Friday, August 8, 2025

Success journal 1153: work 12hrs, travelling 2.5hours

My new work schedule. 

Wake up at 0600hrs, reach home around 2130hrs 

12 hours work daily, 2.5hrs transport.