My Four Pillars in Life and What is my Why

There are Five Pillars of my life which will allow me to achieve things I want in life.

But before I go into How, I would like to focus on WHY do I want them?

Perhaps, after understanding WHY I want them, I can understand the benefit of it. Focus my energy on the benefits and to achieve it within my lifespan.

**Drum Rollss**

1. Why do I want to gain more Knowledge?
• To appreciate more in life
• To share more to other people in life
• To help others make wise decisions/see more
• To make clearer decisions/informed decisions
• To allow people around me to have a better life
• To see more/understand more about this world
• To be more interesting
• To shed more lights about facts/life
• To be more resourceful/valuable
• To be able to impart knowledge to others more effectively
2. Why do I want to be financially free?
• To have more time to chase my other goals/wants and needs in life
• To have more options in life
• To live a life filled with happiness
• To be more effective in doing things
• To focus on what is important to me
• To spend more time with my family and loved ones
• To travel around and gain more knowledge
• To be healthy in terms of physically, emotionally and spiritually
• To be more financially secured
• To be able to support the whole family
• To be able to assist others to be financially free
• To impart knowledge to other people
• To be able to experience more things and unique moments with my family
3. Why do I want to have strong bond with my Family
• To spend more happy time with them
• To gain trust from them
• To thank them, for giving me such a wonderful life
• To love them more
• To appreciate them more
• To understand them more
• To make my family happy
4. Why do I want to have a healthy body
• To make people around me happy
• To have a more fulfilling life
• To be able to have more time and ability to achieve more things in life
• To be able to see/touch/smell things 
• To be able to travel around and gain knowledge
• To be able to spend quality time with family
• To be able to do things I love
• To be able to play sports with my children

2016 review

I know is a bit late for my 2016 review, but who cares? hah!

• Married to a gorgeous lady
• Got our Malaysia wedding registration 
• Gave a speech in front of 500 pax ( in my wedding haha)
• Had fun in my wedding
• Went clubbing with good friends ( in my wedding)
• Arranged accommodation for more than 10 pax
• Bought a bicycle
• Met Joseph Schooling. Olympic gold medalist
• Attended Joy's wedding
• Hit my 76kg weight target
• Brought my parents to Macau & HK
• Learn to play poker with pore pore group
• Attended a project manager's course
• Able to do clap push-up
• Appreciate coffee and chocolate more than ever
• Spent more than a month's time with my parents
• Travelled to Switzerland, Germany and Austria
• Drove on a no limit highway
• Hit my target for my salary package. 
• One SG stock I owned hit 30% gain
• Obtained my Singapore PR
• Applied PR for Jenny
• Jenny is pregnant. 
• Attended John C Maxwell seminar
• Met Jim Rogers in person. The adventurous millionaire whom I adore
• Save around 30% of my income
• Met a few new key investing friend. Joey Ting, Teo, Wilson, KC

Thank you for this wonderful year. Looking forward to another wonderful year ahead! 

20th of January 2017 Jayden's Delivery

3 am Jenny broke her water at home, we packed our stuff and took a cab to Margaret Hospital.

We reached Margaret Hospital around 10 mins later, went straight to the delivery department. She was asked to change her clothes and I was told to get the registration done in the administration building H which is the A&E department.

After she is being verified by the doctor in charge that she had broke water. They asked her to stay in the ward for the night and asked me to go home. I packed my stuff and took a taxi back home. I reached home around 345am and went straight to sleep.

At 9 am, I followed Jenny's mum to Magaret hospital block C LG floor and I waited in the waiting room with some light meals and lunch to share with Jenny later with visiting hours from 12 to 1 p.m. She left after allowing me to sit there. Around 12 noon I went to the Labour department bringing lunch for Jenny.

With Jenny in the labour ward

After hours of labour pain, a doctor checked her status and found that she only opened at 2 to 3 degrees instead of 6 degrees at around 4 pm. Doctors informed us that is progress is no good, we may have to opt for emergency C-section. Doctor gave Jenny Pitocin which is to increase the frequency of the contractions as Jenny seems to be falling behind

At 5 pm, her mum is here to see her, I went off for my quick dinner and took a short walk in the garden in the cold weather. Closing my eyes to calm me

I went back around 7 pm, 30mins later, she is surrounded by doctors. Doctors confirmed that she will be going C-Section. Due to slow openings after induction, the General anaesthetist came in to check Jenny to confirm if she is good to do partial anaesthetic or general anaesthetic. The doctor is booking her a room already in D block, which is just opposite the ward.

I was then asked to wait in the waiting room, and jenny asked me to call her parents.

At 2130hrs, jenny was pushed into DL1 operation theatre and Jayden's was born at 2200hrs

The baby was being brought out around 2230hrs, Jenny was being pushed out from the operation theatre around 1145, just a few minutes after her mum left.

She then brought to the 1st floor together with the baby for overnight. I wasn't allowed to enter

I went home that night, feeling happy. Looking forward to the visiting hours at 12noon the next day.