Success journal 72

FFA 0

Connect with ding and loi

Understanding new culture

Explore seremban

Connect with friends and family

Connect with Jenny

Success Journal 71

FFA=0

Connect with Jenny and Jayden, brought them to Sofitel Sentosa for high tea

Plan for a short break

Learn to relax and recharge

Learn about option

Floss

Success Journal 70

FFA = 10

Read annual report of LPL

Supported Jenny in taking care Jayden

Connect with Jenny

Connect with parents

Research on Nvidia annual report

Success Journal 70

FFA =0

Received dividend from RSX of 180++

I upgraded my pc to two monitors and ram myself. Conquered my fear upgrading PC

Contacted mum and discussed things with her

Connect with Jenny, and discuss with her about her emotions

Focus on what I want and make it happen

Success Journal 69

FFA 0

Spent time with mau, teo ocean and Alvin

Discussed with Shaun about mum's retirement.

Sold vix put at 2.4 percent profit

Learn online tutorial think or swim

Bought DDR 3. Upgrading my

Success journal 68

FFA = 0

Connect with Jenny
Learn about energy
Connect with Shaun Wilson and old friends

Spend time on my self

Try to sell Anthony Robbins ticket

Success Journal 67

FFA=1

Connect with Shaun. shared my plan with him
Connect with Jenny
Shared my intention to go back Sabah
Collected more premium
Building passive income through multiple streams

Success Journal 66

FFA=1

Socialise with Pore pore group and also Nottingham's group
Spent time learning about cryptocurrency
Watched a seminar by sean seah, and copied a trade
Take action and bought litecoin and ethereum
Taking video training on option basics

Success journal 65

FFA 0

Connect with Jenny. Blow my play jar in Manhattan bar and Japanese food

Bought bitcoin

Connect with my brother Shaun through investing

Transferred money to Aussie dollar

Fixed deposit

Success journal 64

FFA 12

Sold my laser pen aggressively
Spend time with ccy
Attend a seminar by Daniel loh
Maintaining my success journal
Go deep with my research

Success journal 63

FFA 10

Attended Daniel loh class with ccy
Connect with Jenny
Connect with family
Spent time with Jayden flash card
Be a person with integrity

Success Journal 62

FFA 0
Set my intention
Connect with shaun, dad and mum
Focus on what is important
Investing in knowledge
Read news

Success journal 61

FFA 50
Set my intention
Walk with Jenny
Calendar planning
Brought food to work
Eat carefully
Monitoring my blood pressure

Success journal 60

FFA 0

Connect with Raymond
Found my weakness not checking bill
Not to trust people
Set a high standard
Speak with integrity

Success journal 59

FFA 1

Connect with Jenny
Connect with Jayden
Bitcoin owner
Action taker
Stay real and speak with integrity

Success journal 58

FFA 0

Walked with Jenny
Keep reading intention
Brought food to work
Connect with my parents
Invested in bitcoin

Succes journal 57

FFA 1

Bonding with uni mates
Ccy and serene particularly
Connect with ting ting
Eat carefully in Ipoh
Spend time with friends

Success Journal 56

FFA=100

Maintain my intention card

Communicate with Jenny

Work on our loan

Understand more about bitcoin

Interested in mining

Monthly Review:November 2017

What a meaningful month for me, I focus on roots and these happen.

• Spend solid good time with Dad in Spain for a week+
• Connect with Mau in KL
• Connect with Wilson
• Celebrated Chai Ann and CCY birthday
• Continued my intention card every day
• Shared my MMI learnings with Lucy and bought her Tea in PS Cafe Paragon
• Started bitcoin mining process with Wilson
• Lost 4.3kg of fat 
• Weighing about 80.4 now
• Attended Joey's wedding 
• Closed FONR making $100++
• Sold options for ABX and also BOFI
• Walked to work with Jenny when I am on night shift
• We have 30k to go for our 300k target equity
• Read Financial times article and The edge
• Eat healthily ( brought vegetables to work)
• Started Long-term index fund ( VWRD.LSE)
• Participated in our travel plan to IPOH and also Spain
• To connect with a broker from UOB for our loan in 108
• Listen to Julie Dittmar Hypnotherapy audio
• To sleep sufficiently, at least 7 hours a day
• To spend time with Jayden in the park regularly
• Managed to stay positive this month
• Bought present for the kids and will give generously
• To connect with like-minded people 
• Maintained google keep
• Maintained my FFA account

Items I missed

• Push up on a daily basis
• Read a book

Target for coming December 

• To achieve 79kg weight and 24% body fat
• To spend less than I earn So I can invest more in stock
• To start mining bitcoin
• To be a person with integrity, do whatever I say
• To plan our US road trip in March 2018
• To save for Kamin's wedding
• To close the 108 loan
• To eat healthily, to continue to bring healthy green to work
• To maintain monthly goals setting and monthly review
• To meditate and practise deep breathing and deep relaxation
• To appreciate more about little things in life
• To learn and experience life 
• To automate my saving, so I have more time to focus on Important matters
• To manage Jenny and my money. Spend less than we earn
• To connect with Rich and successful people
• To be an excellent receiver of the universe
• To find and search properties in JB
• To connect with Pore pore group
• To continue walk with Jenny

Success Journal 55

FFA 100

Connect with Jayden

Expressed my concerns with Jenny

Connect with Mum

Connected with Wilson about bitcoin

Learn about bitcoin

Success Journal 54

FFA=0

Another step forward in building trust
Connect with Jenny, Sally, Joey, Wilson, Mum and RTO Julius
Answering the question, what is blockchain. It is about decentralisation trust
Looking into Karex, after losing for many quarters
believing Russia, Vladimir Putin

Success journal 53

FFA 10

Trusting Mani
Connect with Jenny and Jayden
Took action on bofi
Speak to mum
Took action on bitcoin

My private life status

We currently live in a rented floor in chancery hill road, previously a studio room but now converted into a mini 2 bedder room with kitchen, living room, toilet and working space. It is about 800sqft excluding laundry facilities, gym and common  area.

In general, in my opinion, it is rather comfortable for a family of 4 to live in. 

However, our sex life have changed, from good to bad post natal.

Firstly, the number of sexual encounters dropped significantly. From at least a few times a week to now once a month.

Secondly, the quality of our sex dropped and our desire of having sex had disappeared naturally.

Less bonding time now.

As a person spending most  of my time with her. I understand what she went through psychologically and physically. She has given her best into this relationship.

By the time when we are on bed together. She would either feel mentally or physically exhausted from daily tasks.

Initiating sex in this condition is plain disrespectful.

Apart from that, stress and pressure had built up slowly within us. Not just because of the sex part, but also financially and decisions making.

I feel there is more unnecessary arguements nowadays on things that not worth to mention and she would throw her voice and emotions up the roof whenever we had one.

Perhaps this is a way for her to release her stress.

There are many thoughts went through my mind while I am writing this post and thinking how I can improve myself as a lifelong partner.

I always tell myself to live on principles and focus on the root so flowers will flourish and fruits will be beared.

I shall constantly supporting her needs and actively listening to her.

Success journal 52

FFA  10
Connect with Jayden and Jenny

Putting time and energy to what is matter

Practising intentions setting

Practising active listening

Selective hearing

Success journal 51

FFA 0

Be honest with Jenny
Get the FD done
Learn about bitcoin
Connect with Jenny
Spent time with Jayden

Success Journal 50

FFA 0

Connect with Loi,
Connect with Shaun
Connect with Andrew
Connect with Lucy
Spent time with Jayden and Jenny
Connect with Mum

Success Journal 50

FFA= 10

Spent time with Jenny and Jayden
Connect with mum .
Connect with dad
Connect with shaun
eat less

Success Journal 49

FFA= 0

Spent time with Jayden and Jenny
Bought a meal for LUCY
Shared an interesting story with Lucy
Connect with family
Connect with Loi

Learning from Lucy about money and self development

There are 3 main points to have power. 

1. Network is your power

2. Perception is reality

3. Express your anger accordingly

5 Reasons for investing in RSX

Long Russia, a country with resources.

Saw tourists from Russia in Spain

They have agriculture, oil and resources

They are creditors

Low PE ratio

Quick review on October and plan for November and December 2017

A quick review of my mini achievements in October and November 2017

• Met up with Hong Kong pore pore group for Karen
• Spent time to celebrate Chai ann and CCY's birthday
• Spent quality time with colleagues
• Downgraded my phone contract to sim only plan. 
• Spent time with Jenny's family
• Achieve my target weight to 81kg 26% fat! 
• Maintained my daily blogging habit
• Set my intention for everyday
• Contributed to my FFA
• Closed part of my USO trade with USD1.5k profit
• Utilise Google keep to keep track of my goals and to do list
• Communicate with my parents closely
• Did research on my travel plan in November with dad
• Continue reading the edge 
• Invested in VWRD. LSE
• Opened my position in FONR
• Opened my stock position in RSX ( Russia fund) 
• Opened my stock position in QID for market shock
• To familiarise me with Think or swim
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Target for November and December 2017

• My current body weight is 81kg with body fat 26.2%. To go 79kg by end of this year
• To create another source of passive income
• To eat healthily
• To get enough rest, at least 7 hours of sleep every day 
• To maintain monthly goals setting and review blog through my blogger
• To continue to utilise Google keep and calendar to organise and keep my note
• To communicate clearly with my bosses and also colleagues
• To communicate with my parents. Call them every 2 to 3 days
• To support my family, parents, Shaun and aunty Josephine in the long run. To plan with them
• To spend more time with Jayden. Go to the park whenever we can
• To spend more time with key people around me. There is no need to please them
• To attend Joey's Wedding in November
• To read The Edge Financial news every day!
• To read, absorb and understand an article a day of Financial news 
• To read a book while I am on night shift
• To invest in long term index fund.
• To manage my money spending, eat from home and spend less
• To buy grocery through amazon to save time and hassle-free. Do more reading! 
• To release the need to be reactive. To be calm and listen when in trouble
• To learn about presentation skills. To have a structure
• To learn about public speaking skills. To take more opportunity
• To plan and research for our US trip in March 2018. Watch youtube travel tips.
• To manage our money, communicate with Jenny and spend less than we earn.
• To automate my life more so I can focus on important stuff
• To continue to support my investment member for the long-term
• To take care of Sally's family. To listen more of her needs
• To work on a mortgage plan for my Australia and Philippines property.
• To connect with more rich and successful people in Singapore
• To learn and copy from successful people
• To love successful and rich people
• To be an excellent receiver of the universe
• To maintain my success journal on a daily basis
• To celebrate small success made for my financial freedom journey
• To experience fun quality dining experience with Jenny
• To understand Jenny and love her more. To do more walk with her and connect with her.
• To identify and connect with resourceful people
• To travel to IPOH 

Success journal 48

FFA= 10

Spent time with Jenny and Jayden
Rest sufficiently
Spend money carefully
Connect with mates
Brought food to work

Success journal 47

FFA 1

Appointed as site manager for 883

Spent time with Jayden and Jenny

Listen to my family

Listen to Shaun

Take massive action at stock market

Success Journal 46

FFA 0

Spent time with boy in the park
Spent time with family
Brought food to work
Communicate with Jenny
Closed my transaction for USO

Success Journal 45

FFA 0
1. Spent quality time with Jenny, connect with her

2.Read an important article about investing shared by Shaun

3. Sharing with Dad about MMI

4. Spent quality time with Jayden

5. Manage my time carefully

Deep conversation with Dad 2017

1. Shaun is contributing the internet business

2. Mum and Jo are not speaking, dad is supporting neither

3. Nippon Daniel and Jeffrey are in a team

4. Elun is supporting us.

5. Shaun will be most probably takeover the business

6. Travelling is investing in mind

7. Buy properties to make money

Success journal 44

FFA 0

Didn't spend my Euro completely
Spent quality time with dad.
Had an open talk with dad
Learnt about Spanish culture in building relationship

Day 6 Spain trip End

Unfinished conversation

Today is the end of our trip. After breakfast in Meliá sky Barcelona.

We transferred to Barcelona airport to Dubai and then transit in KL.

Beautiful and interesting conversation I had with Dad.

Get to know more insights about his business and him in person. Good trip.

Day 5 Spain trip Barcelona city

After our breakfast, we went for a stroll on Olympic park near the beach, for a photo stop. As what our tour guide, Tony, said. 

My father and I touched went to the beach and touched the Mediterranean sea.

After the park, we took the bus to montjuic mountain, did a stroll around the park, and took a few photos.

After the park, we went to the city, and headed to Sagrada familia basilica.

Our local tour leader Anna, gave us a brief tour about the basilica, which is a bit too heavy on the details for random people like us.

After our tour, we went to La Rambla for a walk and I brought my dad to La boqueira for El Quiem.

The unpretentious hawker stall, with a yellow signage took me a while to find it. Perhaps, La boqueira is bigger than I thought. I only managed to find it after asking information center inside.

The only way I managed to identified el Quiem is basically by the crowd and also pans with squid and eggs on the table.

Upon reaching the stall, we can see people standing around the stall but there is no clear queues.

I noted, from one local gorgeous in front of me who air-kissed tattooed staff from the kitchen in the center of the stall who looked like the owner of the stall, that the queue is not obvious but the staff know whose turn it is.

We waited for about an hour until a cool staff signalled us to sit down.

Without hesitating, we took the high chairs around the bar and placed our order.

We ordered a Cava, beer, padron peppers and the main dish, baby squid fried eggs.

Their staffs were relaxed and friendly.
We spent about an hour there for our meal.

Some important conversation shared between me and my dad during the meal.

We both enjoyed the meal. We then proceed to a brief walk around the city.

We went to Casa Batlo and Casa Mila by Anthoni Gaudi.

We also witnessed a peaceful demonstration by the Catalan to be independent from Spain.

We had our dinner in Marina Bay restaurant and proceeded to the casino for the rest of the night.

Success journal 43

FFA 0

Built an habit of writing success journal

Spent time with dad. Built bond

Eat in a controlled manner

Build trust with others

Learn how to handle difficult paper

Day 4- Spain trip Montserrat

So after our breakfast, we took an hour bus ride to montserrat, a place popular for its monastery built from 13th century.

As usual, instead of going through the monastery, my dad and I head to a cafeteria and continue our conversation about life lesson.

We discussed about religion,health, family and business. It is mind opening to note that my dad made his 1st bucket of gold when he is in his early 30s.

After our coffee and a doughnut, we then took a short hike around the mountain.

We also tried Mato and rosemary honey (a local delicacy of Montserrat)

After our lunch in Montserrat, we then went to La lorca village for outlet shopping.

Dad bought a Loewe for Jenny and under armour for brother and me.

We then resumed our tea session in Japanese fusion cafe.

We took bus back to Barcelona city for dinner and spent the rest of our night in a casino

Success journal 42

FFA 0

Spent time with dad
Had important conversation with dad
Read papers from the edge
Rest well
Walk with dad

Day 3- Spain trip Barcelona

Woke up at 5 am, took a bath and ate breakfast in our holiday Inn in Madrid.

After our breakfast, we took the bus to Atocha train station.

Train ride to Barcelona is about 3 hours, and we reached Barcelona around 1230hrs

Immediately we arrived Barcelona, we had Chinese lunch and went to Camp Nou.

We took a tour to experience camp Nou

After Camp Nou, we went for dinner at seaside and retire to our Meliá Sky hotel in the city.

Had a good slept that night.

Day 2 spain trip Madrid

Started my day with a hot bath in the hotel at 6am.

Had breakfast and then took our bus to Segovia, a country popular for its aquaduct today which had been built 2000 years ago by the Roman to transfer water into the castle.

After a brief walk around the town, we had suckling pig for lunch and left the town back to Madrid.

In Madrid, we went to the royal palace of Madrid and shopped around.

Dad and I went to a slot machine shop and spent the afternoon there.

Dinner is at a touristy place in Gran vie, we watched cultural dance and had paella for dinner.

After our dinner, we went back to hotel area and again went to play slot machine.

My dad enjoyed the game

Success Journal 41

FFA 0

Eat less
Be grateful
Connect with Dad
Connect with Jenny
Connect with Dad's business associate

Day 1-Spain trip Madrid

We arrived Madrid in the afternoon, met our local guide and took a bus to the city area

Our first stop is Spain square, where we took photos and stuff.

Travelled around in the city of Madrid.

Went to the bull ring, plaza de toros

And also stopped by at Real Madrid stadium for photo taking session

We then checked in our room , shower  and took an hour nap.

We had dinner around 830pm and went back hotel to rest.

Success journal 40

Connect with dad
Connect with supplier Nippon.
Met Daniel and Elun
Spent quality time rest
Travel to spain

Success journal 39

FFA 0

Connect with mau
Celebrated chai ann and ccy birthday
Receive meals and drinks with gratitude

Awesome time in KL
Share some ideas

Success Journal 38

FFA $0

lend 500 to my colleague
Connect with my mates and friends
Connect with Jenny
Spent a short quality time with Jayden
brought food to work

Success journal 37

FFA 0

Connect with Mum
Discuss with Jenny
Diet plan
Share my diet plan with Adonis
Brought food to work

Success journal 36

FFA 0

Brought food to work
Ate salad
Work hard
Build trust
Gave money to Albert's funeral

Success journal 35

FFA 0
Spent time with Jenny
Brought salad to work
Get enough rest
Read papers
Played Intention card
Listen to Julie dittmar

Success journal 34

FFA 0
Salad
Brought food to work
Read news

Success journal 33

FFA $0

Spent the whole day with family
Quality time with Jenny
Positive this month
Saving in progress
Prepare reading materials
Bonding with mum

Success journal 32

FFA 0

Brought food to work
Build relationship with mates
Add value to Loi
Connect with Jenny
Spent time with Jayden.

Success journal 31

FFA $1
Fight for my 1 dollar with the vendor
Accept with gratitude
Did flash card
Brought food to work
Ate salad

Success jouenal 30

FFA $9
Connect with Jenny mother and sister
Practise reaching office earlier
Connect with my colleague
Control my emotions
Listen to Julie dittmar during lunch time
Eat salad
Bring food to work

Success journal 29

Spent time with Jenny's family
Rest well
Eat salad at work
To be organised
To be honest and real

Success Journal 28

FFA 0
Push up 40 times
Share knowledge with JY
Spent time with Jenny's Family
Be grateful
Read Syed moktar
Do what is hard for me
Excellent receiver - free dish and kids meal from putien

Success Journal 27

FFA =0

Walk with Jenny
Spent time with Jayden
To get enough rest
To share notes with JY
To maintain my FFA account

Success Journal 26

FFA= $0 

Communicate closely with my peers and people around me

Received a big gift from Joey for a seminar/course by Ken Teng

Had cheap meal for lunch 

Didn't take taxi home, despite carrying so many stuff

Plan my work/ days ahead

Success journal 25

FFA= $10

Good rest
spent time with Jayden
Connect with mum.
research on philippine's loan
brought food to work! enforce this habit

Success journal 24

FFA= 0

Slept sufficiently
Walk around all the area in Site
Total FFA got 200 dollars
haven't got any play jar as I overplayed last month
Study more ETF!

Success Journal 23

FFA =$0

Connect with my mum
Understanding more about ETF
Share important information with my friends
Connect with Jenny and Jayden
Went to the park
Brought food to work

Success Journal 22

FFA $0

To receive free courses from Joey

Say Thank you without offering back

To nurture and spend time with Jenny and Jayden

To connect with my mum

To be grateful for the flexibility

Success Journal 21/21

FFA=0

Finally I have ran through this success journal habit for 21 days! phew! I choose to keep it up 

Brought food to work

Communicate/focus on Jenny

Prepare Jenny for her interview

Prepare for my Spain's trip

Done my 21 days of habit

Success Journal 20/21

FFA= $1

Took action on montessori at home for Jayden
Discussed difficult topic with Jenny
Work reasonably with Sub-con
Relax
Brough food to work and save money

Success Journal 19/21

FFA = $0

Got my Jar setup
Placed a trade for vanguard global fund etf (irish) VWRD ( Awesome! ) 
Brought food to work, thanks to Sally
Plan celebration with Mr Rhey
Spent quality time with Jayden at home
Brought him to park

Success journal 18/21

FFA = $0

Went to the park with Jayden
Slept through the day
Listened to Andrew Hallam/ afford anything podcast
Spent quality time with Jenny
Be conservative

Success Journal 17/21

FFA = $0

Played flash card with Jayden
Maintain trust with Jenny
Listened to Jenny
Bought a flash card for Jayden
Brough food to work

Success Journal 16/21

FFA $2

Spent quality time with Jayden
Played flash cards with Jayden
Read a book about Syed Mokhtar
Spent time and energy with Jenny.
Connect with my mum and dad

Success journal 15/21

Deposit to FFA $ 2.00

Went home during break time to spend quality time with Jayden and Jenny
Build relationship with RTO Anthoni
Discuss with Dad about projects
Helped my cousin about designing retaining wall
Asked for help from Jonathan.

Success journal 14/21

Put money into my FFA $2
Spent time with mum and aunties
Did not react to negative situation
Focus on rewards
Bought my jars
Booked my ticket to my holidays
Watch motivating/self improvement video

End of September review and plans for Oct and November 2017

A quick review of my mini achievements in September 2017

• Attended MMI, got a free ticket from Lucy
• Connect with key Nottingham friends over dim sum at ION Imperial treasure
• Connect with family at Si Chuan Dou Hua at UOB Plaza 60th floor. They loved it
• Bought tickets for parents to come over Singapore.
• Be grateful to have sally around to take care of Jayden. 
• Set a mindset to achieve a passive income of SGD18,000.00 per month. 
• Started bringing food to work from home, to maintain a period of time. To maintain 21 days
• To continue listen to Julie Dittmar hypnotherapy
• I signed up a cheaper plan with starhub. Saved 1k ++

Target for October and November 2017

• Body weight is 84.3, 27.3%. I choose to go down to 81kg by end of this month. 
• Again, maintain 1600 calories per day, 2 main meals a day. 
• To maintain monthly goals setting and review blog
• To utilise Google keep to organise and keep my note
• To communicate clearly with my bosses and also colleagues
• To communicate with my parents closely
• To support my family, parents, Shaun and aunty Josephine in the long run
• To spend more time with Jayden
• To spend more time with key people around me. There is no need to please them
• To plan my coming holiday in November
• To attend Joey's Wedding in November
• To complete my 90 days conditioning workbook
• To continue reading The Edge Financial news
• To read, absorb and understand an article a day of Financial news 
• To wake up at 530am when I am on day shift, reach office by 0715am
• To read a book while I am on night shift
• To spend time in a library reading
• To maintain a jar system. For now is my saving POSB which I will not touch
• To manage my money spending, eat from home and spend less
• To not be reactive on negative comment
• To learn about presentation skills
• To learn about public speaking skills
• To travel to Barcelona and Madrid
• To plan for our US trip in March 2018
• To Manage my money
• To automate my life
• To continue to support my investment member for the long-term
• To take care of Sally's family
• To work on a mortgage plan for my Australia and Philippines property.
• To connect with more rich and successful people in Singapore
• To learn from successful people
• To love successful people
• To be an excellent receiver of the universe
• To maintain my success journal on a daily basis
• To celebrate small success made for my financial freedom journey
• To experience fun quality dining experience with Jenny
• To connect more with Jenny
• To understand more about jenny's need
• To take care of my body and health
• To connect with resourceful people

Success Journal 13/21

Deposited 2 dollars to FFA

Spent time at home
I booked my flight to Spain
I connect with my family
I assisted my cousin in melbourne for his project
I choose not to react to bad situation

Success journal 12/21

Deposited FFA
To continue deposit money into FFA
To eat from home
To connect with family
To handle family dispute
To learn more and support my group

Success journal 11/21

To continue put money into FFA
To practise success journal
To think advance
To plan with my wife
To bring food to work

Success journal 10/21

To continue put money into FFA
To practise success journal
To think advance
To plan with my wife
To bring food to work

Success journal 10/21

Stop complaining
Take responsibility of my life
Eat from home
Justify for my subcon
Build trust with my subcon

Success journal 9/21

Discussed with my brother regarding family issue

Take responsibility of my own expenses.

Contribute to my friends and add value to them.

Improve myself consistently.

Practising intentional living

Success journal 8/21

Met ting ting, Pak Hoe(Theresa's son)
Work with integrity
Not to react to incident
Stay Calm
Manage stakeholders well

Success journal 7/21

Reach office on time
Is healthy
Spent time with Willie discussing about self improvement
BE a man of value
Spent time with jenny

Success journal 6/21

Healthy
Spent a good two weeks with Jayden
Pushing for good deals
Discussed money with Jenny
Went for a walk to NTUC with Jenny to buy things and to discuss about stuff

Success journal 5/21

1.Discussed with dad about our family business
2. Spent time with Jayden
3. Communicate with Loi about family issue
4. Still following mmi and listening to mmi hypnotherapy
5. Stay grateful

High-performing habits declaration

1. Seek Clarity- I seek clarity more often than others. What is our intention for this meeting? What's important? What matters? High performers constantly seek for clarity. 
2. Generate Energy- I take a quick break in between transitions to generate energy throughout the day. 
3. Raise necessity- I raise the psychological necessity regarding why it si important for me to perform well. 
4. Increase Productivity- I increase outputs on things that matter and important to my long-term success. 
5. Develop Influence- I develop influence by teaching/sharing with others on how to think and grow
6. Demonstrate Courage- I speak up for myself, I speak up for others and I honour the struggle. I know it is hard, but I will push for it. 

Success Journal 4/21

• Spent time with my family
• Started Financially free account
• working on the work book
• playing the cards consistently to build this habit 
• Focus on the result

Why we don't succeed by Simon Sinek

1.Failed parenting strategy
2. Technology
3. Impatience
4. Environment

Success Journal 3/21

1. Contact with family
2. spent time with jayden
3. Listen to hypnotherapy
4. Crafted a main goal, Create 18k/month passive income 
5. Negotiated with Starhub for a better deal

MMI 2017 Takeaways

Day 1
Start a jar system
FFA 10%
EDU 10%
LTSS 5%
LTSS 5%
GIVE 5%
PLAY 10%
NEC 55%

Quality over quantity

Do not create money through fear, anger or to prove yourself. Create money through joy

Day 2

• Intention of the day, play the money game to win
• Draw a success table
• Management agreement
• There are no failures, only feedback
• Spend 80% of resources in Marketing
• We are creatures of Habits
• I am a Money Magnet, Thank you thank you thank you
• Never compare to others people success
• Master Manifestor
• My wife held a high standard of me
• Spend 30 minutes a day improving 
• Craft a mission statement
• Death by powerpoint

Day 3

• Focus on me please, be present
• Learn from nature
• No right and wrong. Only supportive and non-supportive thoughts
• Doing for another person will only lose interest 
• Being angry is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies
• Success breeds success
• Start a success journal
• To attend mission to million
• Thoughts- Feelings- Action= Results
• Action is the bridge between thought and result
• Fear=anticipation of pain
• Act in spite of fear

We sang The Living Years

Met a few high profiled individual and sat down speaking with them. One of them is Kira , an full Oxford scholarship sailing around the world. 

The course fee is about sgd1250 and was given to me by Lucy. Feeling grateful

Success journal 2/21

1. Catch up with aunty Jo and Da Yi.
2. Spent time with Jayden
3. Got my work book up
4. Connect with my mum
5. Connect with Jenny

Success journal 1/21

As I have just attended mmi recently , one of the habits that I would like to work it out is to maintain a success journal.

The key is to celebrate small success and be grateful about it

1. Started the post mmi workbook
2. Connected with a few friends from MMI
3. Keep in touch with my parents
4. Spent time with Jayden
5. Started this success journal

Parents visiting SG for 7 Days

As Malaysia is celebrating its Independent's Day on the 31st of August, my parents decided to utilise the long weekend holiday to visit us in SG.

Wednesday 30/8
They touched down Singapore, we met up for a dessert in Ah Chew's dessert near our place after my class in Jurong.

After our dessert session, we walked back to home after and they seem to enjoy the place.

Thursday 31/8
Is our Merdeka day, I was working that day while Jenny had a phone interview in the morning.
My parents dropped by Hearing Solution in Bras Basah branch to meet up with the staff in order to service my dad's hearing aid.

We met up for dinner in Hawker Chan in China town where Michelle also joined us for dinner.

My parents loved the Soya Chicken and disliked their Charsiew. I told them it used to be a hawker and transformed to a Michelin restaurant now.

Friday 1/9
So we took our own sweet time, I am off today and we went for a quick walk around the neighbourhood to show them Jayden's school

After a brisk walk, we then wash up and head towards the turf for a meal in Pasar Bella, we shopped around while waiting for Michelle in the place. The place is a rather family friendly place. Could easily spend half a day there.

We then sat down at a table near crispy pork and we started bringing food to the table, we had Char Siew, beer, oyster, paella( must eat) and Quesadilla. My dad loved quesadilla!

After our meal, Jenny and I took a taxi home and they continue their shopping with Aunt Michelle.

We joined them for dinner in Vivo city, we had Bornga for dinner, which is totally my number 1 Korean dinner place in Singapore.
They served one of the best Sesame glass noodles and pancakes and rather reasonable. I must say their dishes have improved significantly.

Saturday 2/9/17
We took a taxi to Albert Hall in the morning, Mum said that she wanted to buy some nuts home this time round.

We then met up Michelle in New Rong Kee, as she said my dad liked the roasted pork here. The food is good but just rather crowded and hot for Jayden. Not the best place with an infant. I still remember there is this uncle asking money and arguing with me the whole time while Jayden is crying. He nearly pushed me to my limit.

After our lunch, we then went shopping in Bugis + and also Bugis Junction. My dad bought Jayden a pair of Shoes. We took a few photos of Jayden and his new pair of shoes too.

After buying shoes, we then went to a toast box for a quick coffee, we left for home after our coffee session.

Joined them at night in Clark quay, where we had Song Fa Ba Kut Teh, I didn't know it was a 1 Michelin star restaurant now.

Queue for about 30 minutes before our turn, parents joined in half way while we were waiting. They loved the Ba Kut Teh. My dad paid for the meal.

After our meal, Michelle bought us a round of Ice Cream and we sat by the River watching the crowd or to let others watch us vice versa.

We walked from Clark Quay to Robertson Quay's Wine connection.
We had a Riesling, while Jenny had Moscato. I ordered a cheese plate
1. Marcellin
2. Tommie de Saveur
3. Goat cheese

They liked the Tommie the most, probably because it was the lightest of all. My mum hated Marcellin.


Sunday 3/9/2017
We met Michelle in Toast box in Novena Square, She bought us a big breakfast and we then walked around the mall and continued our lunch in our favourite Japanese ramen place. Oh my oh my, we have been eating like 2 meals within 3 hours span.

They continued their shopping plan somewhere, where Jenny, Jayden and I went home for a rest.
We then prepared steamboat dinner at home. Jenny bought the induction cooker for this.

We all had an enjoyable night eat steamboat together with Michelle.

Monday 4/9/17
Dad had his Hearing Aid solution appointment at 10am, I didn't join in the morning. I only joined them after Jayden taken his Lunch.

After Jayden's lunch at home, which was fed by Sally, I then brought him to Raffles City to meet up my parents. We had Tim Hoe Wan that day, didn't manage to catch the senior discount that day and Jayden was sleeping throughout our meal time.

After our meal at Tim Hoe Wan, we walked to Suntec and then millennia walk mall. We sat down in a cafe called Kith and spent our afternoon there. I booked a flight for my parents to come over again at the end of September. Grateful and happy to have them coming over to see Jayden while Jenny is not around. Dad bought me a new pair of shoes( Rockport)

We then walked from Millennia to Suntec city's toast box, gathered with Jenny after her volunteering work in SPCA. Had a light coffee before we met up with Michelle at City Hall station.
Jenny had to leave for home as she is not feeling well after eating at toast box.

We then walked towards Rendevous hotel for a Mexican meal! Mum paid for the meal! We then took a bus home that night.

Tuesday 5/9/17
Jenny brought them to IKEA with Jayden while I resumed my work, They left Singapore around 530pm.

So that is all to wrap up my parents 7-days trip here in Singapore.

23/8/17 Jayden's Pre nursery registration at St James' Church Kindergarten (SJCK)

As we are attending St James' Church Kindergarten Tour today, Jenny took half day off. Upon arrival around 1230,  we were invited to a waiting room to wait for other parents to reach.

SJCK main building ( the house) 

Garden in front of the main building

The senior principal of St James Church Kindergarten (SJCK), Jacquline Chung showed up and guided us to a gathering area near one of the classrooms. She introduced herself and told us that is one of the biggest group she has ever had in SJCK.

She is very articulate, not the ang moh accent nor the Singlish which I am expecting but rather a comfortable and clear English in her own way. 

The tour is rather simple really as she guided us around the school introducing the spaces.  The tour ended with a Q&A session. The classes are conducted in a bilingual environment where each class will have 2 teachers speaking either English or Mandarin. At the Q&A session, I remember vividly that she said: 

"In Singapore, there is not much difference between schools for literacy and also numeracy education. What sets us apart is value-based decision making embedded in our child."  

We also discussed logistic, number of students in the school and also briefly mentioned about the transition period after the school's lease end in 2023 etc. The tour was rather informative and we were very satisfied with the school's facilities and also teachers on board.

We immediately registered pre-nursery for Jayden right after the tour. We chose the 2nd session because we can top up extra curriculum after the end of the 2nd session. I.e. Swimming sessions with the pool in the school. Can't wait to see Jayden swimming. 

Swimming pool

Malacca 2D1N ( Anita Farewell)

Day 1

Ginger Flower ( Urban townhouse)

Arrived our hotel, ginger flower boutique hotel around 2 pm, checked into our unit which is about 5 mins walk from the reception, we stayed in a unit called urban townhouse.

Upon unloading our luggage, we went to have our lunch at Famosa chicken rice, where they serve rice ball, Satay, and stuff

After loading up, we then go for another round at 88 Jonker street Laksa and also its famous cendol with Gula Melaka. Surely the food in Jonker's street didn't disappoint us. Didn't take us long to finish up the yummy local delicacies.

We then go for free and easy at Dataran Pahlawan for about 2 hours, Jenny and I spent the time chilling at a Starbucks. Didn't do much shopping this time.

After gathering our group around 6 pm at Dataran Pahlawan entrance, we went to buy Nedeje Mille Crepe ( which Karen said is better than Lady M) and move towards our next destination, which is Tong Sheng restaurant. The queue is unbelievable, is about 1.5- 2 hours long as we started around 6.30 pm. We only start eating around 8.40 pm

Tong Sheng Restaurant

After our meal at Tong Sheng, we then went for Thai Massage session at Scents & Senses(  a touch of Thai) located KSB1, 75200. Tel: +6062880228. My masseuse is a Thai called Tip. I took the traditional Thai massage which cost about RM90. highly recommended. I slept a few times while massaging.

After our massage, we dropped all the ladies home and went to Jonker street to check out their nightlife. Jackie bought a few temporary tattoo ( by a Taiwanese brand) and we then head towards Geographer Cafe for a Jug of Tiger.

Ended our Day 1 around 2 am in the morning.

Day 2

I woke up around 12noon, took a few photos in our boutique hotel before we checked out and hunt for food in Jonker street again. I had my 1st meal of the day at Heesan Kopi, which is a cosy place with charming Murals.

After our meal, we then head towards the Scents & Senses again for another round of massage. Our massage session ended at around 1630hrs. We then head towards Jonker street to buy some pastry to bring home.

Jonker Walk Nyonya pineapple tarts house

Gathered at our boutique hotel to collect our luggage and our driver reaches the hotel around 6 pm to fetch us back to Singapore.

Mid August Update

With Jayden around, as time has been rather tight for me as I am learning how to be a new dad now. 

However, since Sally is on board, she has been a great help and I am completely indebted to her that she free up so much time for us. 

So as I got more time now,  I will update accordingly based on my memories for June and July separately,

JUNE- My Favourite Month

The highlight of the month would definitely be going back KK for 9 days to allow my Family to catch up with Jayden, update Jayden’s passport and to celebrate my dad’s birthday.

We went to stay in Kundasang for a night in Perkasa hotel, tip of Borneo (5 hours of drive from KK)

We are planning to go Sandakan the next time and stay overnight in Pine resort Kundasang. 

We celebrated dad’s birthday in I-dragon in Imago and they celebrated my birthday mine in Chat room.

I managed to catch up with Ah Boon, Lisa, Foh, Xiao Yun and Kaichun. It is so good to be able to catch up with old friends in KK. They also celebrated my birthday with a lovely birthday cake from Lady bon bon in Lintas. 

I met Low Sai too, Airbnb king, he is currently based in Kota Kinabalu working on his Airbnb operator business. maintaining about 18 units, with an occupancy rate of about 23days out of 31 days.
His main service is to provide good internet and also transport. He has just recently clinched a contract to manage 20units Airbnb in Aeropod. He is such an entrepreneur! 

My parents are sponsoring Jayden’s milk powder, we bought a total of 22 tins which hand carried twice separately through checked in luggage. I guess you probably can imagine how big our luggage is.

My mom is helping to take care of Jayden during the period of time, which we are very grateful of.

While we were in KK, we also went to see a property in IMAGO, the loft.

Is amazing to be able to spend so many days with my family and I am very grateful for it.

I didn’t achieve much for June as I mainly focus on adapting the life with Jayden around now.

I am suggesting June is a good month to go home. Love the hospitality.

JULY-Absentness

July is about the absentness of Jenny and Jayden for 2 weeks. I spent the majority of the time at home, and Sally is around. Jenny and Jayden went Hong Kong for a holiday and to spend time. There goes my July.

Nottingham’s group celebrated my birthday in CCY’s place, had an awesome time with them.

We went for a picnic in the botanic garden on the 30^th of July and had a great catch up with the uni mates.

AUGUST- Motivating
After signing up for 21gb data with Starhub and watched more self-improvement videos, I recently been touched and motivated online and had many ideas to execute to make money and also to improve the quality of life that I am currently having. 

Spent a great weekend with Jayden and Jenny in National Gallery in City Hall, and looking forward to seeing my parents end of this month. 

A quick review of my mini achievements in June, July and August 2017

·                     Brought Jayden back home in June, 2^nd time.

·                     Celebrated Dad’s birthday at home

·                     Brought Jayden to Kundasang and Kudat

·                     Read business principles by Warren Buffett

·                     Started to read paper the edge Financial paper

·                     Prepared an excel spreadsheet about our current net worth

·                     Signed up for 21gb data for self-improvement video.

·                     Signed up for MMI and also Tony Robbins Unleash your power within. Ready to walk on fire!

·                     Watch a meaningful video about climate change, Before the Flood, by Leo DiCaprio

·                     Went to an art exhibition by Yayoi Kusama with Jayden and also Jenny, love the exhibition and would bring my parents to go together in End of August.

·                     Going for a holiday with Jenny in Malacca

·                     Started clean eat- Oats, bananas, boiled eggs, almond, tuna, beans, breast meat and fewercarbs

·                     To start meditation for 5 minutes on a daily basis, focus on breathing moaning.

·                     Started to understand about bitcoin, downloaded coinbase and also xfers

·                     Take a stroll with Jenny on a daily basis when I am on day shift

·                     Updated my cv- understood that it needs to go other places to take up higher responsibility

·                     Planned my travel itinerary for 2018, will discuss with Jenny to firm up

·                     Had fine dining with Jenny at Ma-Maison on the 4^th of August

·                     Setup a podcast on my phone so I can listen to self-development podcast when travelling

Target for September 2017

·                     To lose weight from 83.2 to 81kg, promised to lose 2kg every month from August onwards.

·                     To maintain 1600 calories for a day

·                     Change the way I eat

·                     Jayden's LTVP to update

·                     To continue blogging and note taking

·                     To be more organised and maintain

·                     Maintain clean eating

·                     Maintain deep breathing technique.

·                     Be grateful with people around me

·                     To meditate for at least 5 minutes a day to boost will power

·                     To learn more about selling things online

·                     To spend more quality time with Jenny and Jayden, go for a walk together at night

Jayden is on his 14th week and my stock trade update

It has been very challenging for the past few months, especially weeks before our helper Sally is on board, as we were travelling to Hong Kong and Kota Kinabalu with Jayden while preparing for Sally to get on board.

Jenny and I were both being stretched to our max. I still remember the period, when we are away from Hong Kong, Jenny had mastitis while I am on night shift.

Since Sally is on board, it is a lot easier for us now, at least we don't need to wake up at night to take care of Jayden. Jayden is now on average feeding on around 120ml per feed, every 2 to 3 hours. He wakes up twice at night on average and take shower once a day.

He started to produce sounds while copying us and has started to recognize people. We hope to show people around our child, so he get more comfortable with strangers and more confident.

I just got his LTVP in Singapore, the whole process has been very pleasant with Sally's help.

Jayden has been behaving, not making much noise and sleep through while we were processing the documents. I am grateful to have this night shift and able to spend so much time with jayden while he is growing up. Nowadays, all my laundry, cooking, dishwashing and chores are taken care by Sally.

My parents had booked their flight ticket to Singapore end of this Month to see Jayden, we are looking forward for them to come over and take care of Jayden.

On a side note, I have recently sold my Capitalland China retail trust with around 15 % profit and entered more USO below $10

Breakdown of the trade:

20161228- I entered 7000 stocks AU8U at 1.355
20170502- Exited 7000 AU8U at 1.555
PROFIT= SGD1400 + Dividend for Last 2 quarter of 2016

Quick review on April and plan for May 2017

Time flies, Focus is the key for me in May. Practising less but better method. To put all my energy on things with highest value.

A quick review for my goals in April

• Picked up Jayden back to Singapore
• Got helper on board
• Free up a lot of time now, that is why i can resume my blog writting
• went back to KK to see parents, relatives and also close friends. 
• Kitchen completed, prep our home for jayden's stay. 
• Visited Jade residence
• Attended Webinar of Cayden and understand more about reits
• Subscribed to FT 

Target for May

• To cut weight from 83.8 to 82kg
• Fat percentage from 27.1 to 24%
• Push up 20 and pull up 5 every day without miss
• Understand more about Singapore reits, structures and their financial ratio
• Jayden's LTVP
• Spend more time on gaining key knowledge on reits, properties and commodities
• Jenny Malaysia PR
• Spend 2 hours reading per day
• Eat leaner. consume more oats and cut down on rice
• Write more post and clarify on our ideas
• Get a kindle paperwhite so I don't need a huge bookshelf in the future to store my books
• Be polite
• Be grateful
• Stay organised
• Book of the month- NLP psychology  The most important thing illuminated by Howard marks

Hong Kong- Singapore- Kota Kinabalu- Singapore

So on the 9th of April, I spent a short weekend in Hong Kong with Jenny's family before we bring Jayden back to Singapore. We stayed in her parents' place and it was an emotional week especially Jayden had spent most of his time in Hong Kong with the family. It was rather emotional when we separated at the airport. Jenny's mum cried

Back to Singapore on the 11th of April, that is a short working week for me before we fly back to Kota Kinabalu to see my parents.

We flew back on the 16th of April, met up with most of the relatives. As usual, we had our seafood binge during the stay in Kota Kinabalu. Siew Lee is around too. She is the key person helping with taking care of Jayden during our stay in KK. 

We accepted every offer babysitting session offered from my family. Jenny and I managed to spent some time doing facial with AC beauty lane. 

It is a blessing for jayden to have so many relatives to love him. We are very grateful of it. 

Mum gave Jayden's a huge angpau. 

After our trip to KK, we came back to Singapore and prepare for the arrival of Sally, she has been a great help to us and we are very grateful to have her. It is really a huge blessing to us and also our family. 

Helper on board

We finally got our maid after months searching.

The helper is actually transferred to us from Jenny's colleague. Not just we saved the agent's fee which could go up to 1k or 2k, we also saved the hassle of picking up a poor performance helper. Going through the unchartered water is never easy for us.

We are now preparing our place for Sully, our new helper to join us on the 24th of April. Getting her a single bed, fan and some minor things and daily stuff.


With 2 different trips in April and Jayden coming to Singapore, I can forsee that our April will be rather a hectic one.

I am grateful things Jenny is doing all the hard work pulling all the strings together.

Wish the Wong family big luck!

Maid Shopping at Far East Shopping Centre

Woke up at 1pm today, slept through my Sunday morning..

Ate a bowl cereal, headed off to Orchard and straight to Far East Shopping centre, saw many people were shopping for jewellery in house of hung

Went to Aatas agency and interviewed two maids. The agency is bad and didnt know about anything

after two interviews, i then went for a meal in Orchard Ion food court,

I continued my interviews with 4 maids from another agency SG manpower.

It is very exhausting as somehow every maids are saying yes to almost all the request I am asking.

Daniel Loh on Option strategy

It is 12 pm, I am preparing for a meal with CCY and also Serene in Raffles place, along with the river at boat quay. It is always good to catch up with good friends over lunch. They are truly someone I know I can trust entirely.

After lunch, I then move swiftly to Tanjung pagar for Daniel Loh's option trading introductory course from 2pm to 5pm at international plaza.

The speaker started off with a brief explanation about the market crashes for the past 50 years. How bubbles are formed and pricked

He somehow managed to link up rising interest rates is the key factor for the bubbles to burst.

He also stated in order for a bubble to burst, it normally takes 4 times of interest rise.

Over decades, debt burdens slowly increase, debt repayment will grow faster than income and forces people to cut back on spending, since ones spending is another's income. As interest rates rise, an individual debt repayment will increase and causes less spending. It will then cause others to have less income, less borrowing, more debt repayment and less spending. Hence becomes a vicious circle. Which is the peak of long-term debt. Deleveraging will happen.

So when deleveraging happens, it is important to know how to short a stock.
Watch the video below until I can understand it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHe0bXAIuk0

The session ended around 5pm, and i had a quick meal with Joey ting at han's restaurant. He bought me a pineapple tarts from JB.

I then went to work in marina bay station.

My Four Pillars in Life and What is my Why

There are Five Pillars of my life which will allow me to achieve things I want in life.

But before I go into How, I would like to focus on WHY do I want them?

Perhaps, after understanding WHY I want them, I can understand the benefit of it. Focus my energy on the benefits and to achieve it within my lifespan.

**Drum Rollss**

1. Why do I want to gain more Knowledge?
• To appreciate more in life
• To share more to other people in life
• To help others make wise decisions/see more
• To make clearer decisions/informed decisions
• To allow people around me to have a better life
• To see more/understand more about this world
• To be more interesting
• To shed more lights about facts/life
• To be more resourceful/valuable
• To be able to impart knowledge to others more effectively
2. Why do I want to be financially free?
• To have more time to chase my other goals/wants and needs in life
• To have more options in life
• To live a life filled with happiness
• To be more effective in doing things
• To focus on what is important to me
• To spend more time with my family and loved ones
• To travel around and gain more knowledge
• To be healthy in terms of physically, emotionally and spiritually
• To be more financially secured
• To be able to support the whole family
• To be able to assist others to be financially free
• To impart knowledge to other people
• To be able to experience more things and unique moments with my family
3. Why do I want to have strong bond with my Family
• To spend more happy time with them
• To gain trust from them
• To thank them, for giving me such a wonderful life
• To love them more
• To appreciate them more
• To understand them more
• To make my family happy
4. Why do I want to have a healthy body
• To make people around me happy
• To have a more fulfilling life
• To be able to have more time and ability to achieve more things in life
• To be able to see/touch/smell things 
• To be able to travel around and gain knowledge
• To be able to spend quality time with family
• To be able to do things I love
• To be able to play sports with my children

2016 review

I know is a bit late for my 2016 review, but who cares? hah!

• Married to a gorgeous lady
• Got our Malaysia wedding registration 
• Gave a speech in front of 500 pax ( in my wedding haha)
• Had fun in my wedding
• Went clubbing with good friends ( in my wedding)
• Arranged accommodation for more than 10 pax
• Bought a bicycle
• Met Joseph Schooling. Olympic gold medalist
• Attended Joy's wedding
• Hit my 76kg weight target
• Brought my parents to Macau & HK
• Learn to play poker with pore pore group
• Attended a project manager's course
• Able to do clap push-up
• Appreciate coffee and chocolate more than ever
• Spent more than a month's time with my parents
• Travelled to Switzerland, Germany and Austria
• Drove on a no limit highway
• Hit my target for my salary package. 
• One SG stock I owned hit 30% gain
• Obtained my Singapore PR
• Applied PR for Jenny
• Jenny is pregnant. 
• Attended John C Maxwell seminar
• Met Jim Rogers in person. The adventurous millionaire whom I adore
• Save around 30% of my income
• Met a few new key investing friend. Joey Ting, Teo, Wilson, KC

Thank you for this wonderful year. Looking forward to another wonderful year ahead! 

20th of January 2017 Jayden's Delivery

3 am Jenny broke her water at home, we packed our stuff and took a cab to Margaret Hospital.

We reached Margaret Hospital around 10 mins later, went straight to the delivery department. She was asked to change her clothes and I was told to get the registration done in the administration building H which is the A&E department.

After she is being verified by the doctor in charge that she had broke water. They asked her to stay in the ward for the night and asked me to go home. I packed my stuff and took a taxi back home. I reached home around 345am and went straight to sleep.

At 9 am, I followed Jenny's mum to Magaret hospital block C LG floor and I waited in the waiting room with some light meals and lunch to share with Jenny later with visiting hours from 12 to 1 p.m. She left after allowing me to sit there. Around 12 noon I went to the Labour department bringing lunch for Jenny.

With Jenny in the labour ward

After hours of labour pain, a doctor checked her status and found that she only opened at 2 to 3 degrees instead of 6 degrees at around 4 pm. Doctors informed us that is progress is no good, we may have to opt for emergency C-section. Doctor gave Jenny Pitocin which is to increase the frequency of the contractions as Jenny seems to be falling behind

At 5 pm, her mum is here to see her, I went off for my quick dinner and took a short walk in the garden in the cold weather. Closing my eyes to calm me

I went back around 7 pm, 30mins later, she is surrounded by doctors. Doctors confirmed that she will be going C-Section. Due to slow openings after induction, the General anaesthetist came in to check Jenny to confirm if she is good to do partial anaesthetic or general anaesthetic. The doctor is booking her a room already in D block, which is just opposite the ward.

I was then asked to wait in the waiting room, and jenny asked me to call her parents.

At 2130hrs, jenny was pushed into DL1 operation theatre and Jayden's was born at 2200hrs

The baby was being brought out around 2230hrs, Jenny was being pushed out from the operation theatre around 1145, just a few minutes after her mum left.

She then brought to the 1st floor together with the baby for overnight. I wasn't allowed to enter

I went home that night, feeling happy. Looking forward to the visiting hours at 12noon the next day.