success journal 652: Get organised and grateful

I spent one hour to upkeep and colour code my messy calendar.

Grateful for my parents and aunty support, mentally in things and continue to be nurtured in life. 

Grateful for Jenny mum that kept supporting me and understanding 

Grateful for my kids to be healthy 

Grateful for my helper to take care of my kids 

Grateful for Jenny to be smart and healthy, loving and understanding 

Grateful that I can travel around, play badminton, edit video 

success journal 651: CNY 2023 Holiday

20th Of Jan 2023

Took a flight together with my family to HK for CNY celebration. 

Touched down HK, Katy and her Husband came to fetch us. And we went Vwalk in Nan Cheong for a buffet dinner with the family. Our treat 

21th of Jan 2023

Went to Tsang Tsui columbarium, to pay respect to Jenny dad. 

Went to scient musuem. Dinosaur exhibition 

Dropped by Shen Shui Po, to check out electronics stuff. 

We had reunion dinner with Jenny family. 

22th of Jan 2023 

Went shopping in Tsim Tsa Tsui, took the ferry and went to IFC. 

23th if Jan 2023

We connected with cousins and played volleyball together. 

We went to Jenny brother place to visit. 

We did BBQ together in Katy's place. 

24th of Jan 2023 

Yum cha with Vera and her family in Mong Kok's Mall Moko. They got a nice playground for the kids. 

Went back home and packed my things 

Katy and Fung fung took me and Jacob to airport with their Tesla, a popular electric car, which they can save fuel at this point of time. 

Touched down Singapore, parents came to fetch me from airport. 

We chatted and went to sleep around 1am. 

25th of January 

Rained whole day, we had breakfast together and went to Orchard for shopping. We started from Tang and walked to Decathlon. 

We had lunch at Tang food court , coffee in toast box in centre point. 

Michelle brought us to a Korean Meal Hyang Yun in Tanjung Pagar

We then took the MRT via Thomson East Coast Line to Gardens by the Bay. 

We went to the river Hong Bao festival in Gardens By the Bay. 

My Dad liked it so much. 

26th of January 2023 

Fly day. My parents and aunty Jo Packed their things and we went to the airport in the morning. 

Had a long breakfast in the food court and I sent them off.. while I was watching them going through the security, I am wondering when I will see them again. 

success journal 650: long weekend

Last Friday morning, Jenny was not feeling well and she was overwhelmed with all the tasks at hand and responsibilities. 

All she needs is my time and I decided to call it an off day 😊

I made the decision only when I was on the way to work. I didn't regret it

We didn't do anything much that day as she is not feeling well. I also cancelled my badminton session so I could spend more time with her. 

We sent her mum off back to Hong Kong and I caught up with my kids, wife and grand aunty. 

Gaining a few grams of weight. 

I am a tea lover 

Success journal 649: baba rebounding

I am closing my eyes through the challenging period, and now it is rebounding. 

If I didn't buy when it was 70++, why do I top up at 100++? What had changed? 

Nothing apart from price action. 

Success journal 648: No extra time

I enjoy doing my errands on the bus. So many things to book, buy and organise. 

Stocks to watch 

People to connect with 

Things to organise 

Success journal 647: touching base with people through badminton

I love my badminton routine, apart from the fact that it is slightly pricey. I am spending around 36 per week. 

On top of that, I am making real connection 

Success journal 646:Short weekend, fine dining. Happy wife happy life

Life has been challenging, tiring and stretching 

Brought Jenny to an sgd500++ meal, Claudine to rekindle our fine dining experience. 

The menu was all in French, and I picked the veil's thymus gland as my main. -.-

There goes my $500 

Lesson learned- Ask 

Apart from that, everything else is excellent. 

Success journal 645: Parenting

I am starting to go through the homework motion with my kids. It is not easy to tame him down for exercise at night. It will take a bit of time. Too bad we don't have such a habit, which caused him to be reluctant to do math exercises with us. 

Success journal 644: Recovery

A few days of early sleep for recovery after celebration 

Success journal 643: 2023

Had a massive alignment with Jenny to support our kids and things that she is frojting and managing for the family. Took up a few tasks for the family so she could be more relaxed. 

Habit went to the library, went to the library in Somerset to borrow a few books. 

To leave work earlier. Latest 7 pm 

Success journal 642: Hair growing

I managed to grow a bit of hair on my apex. I used Rogaine products and some supplements. Grateful. If not, I will be looking a few years older. 

Maintaining my health has been my top priority, as I have been neglecting it for the past few years during the circuit breaker period. To me, at least two badminton sessions per week now. So I can sweat it out and have a balanced meal(more vegetables)

September 

December 2022 

Success journal 641: Tokyo trip with family and mother in law

Day 1 

Singapore Changi to Narita airport Japan. We reached Narita airport around 7 am and checked out around 8 am. 

We bought the JR Tokyo wide pass and took the Narita Express to Tokyo station. We changed to the Marunouchi line and headed to Akasaka Mitsouko station. 

We walked to our hotel, centurion residential Akasaka, and dropped our luggage. We then shopped around the area until 3 pm, and we went back to our hotel to get changed and stuff 

After getting changed, we travelled to Shibuya, Takeshita street, for (window)shopping. 

Day 2 (Senso Ji and Echigo Yuzawa)

We heard that Gala Yazawa is not open yet due to a lack of snow. 

Went to sensoji in the morning in akasuka, packed with people as it was a Sunday. I guess the locals would go to these places as well. The food street is fully open and packed. 

We returned to our hotel and brought out ski luggage to Gala Yuzawa; although it was not opened yet, we went to the Tokyo train station and took the JR line to Gala Yuzawa with our JR Tokyo wide. The opening date had been postponed to the 19th, day 2 of our skiing trip. So we went ahead with our plan and took the train to Gala Yuzawa. 

We nearly missed our stop for our hotel while taking the shinkansen, and we rushed down the train when we reached 

Echigo Yuzawa. 

There was an incident at shabu dinner where the staff had to bow to an angry customer. 

Onsen with Jayden in our hotel. 

Day 3 (Mt Naeba)

Woke up, packed our things and checked out from our hotel. Gala Yuzawa remained closed; we had to look for an alternative. After checking with our hotel reception, we decided to go to Mt Naeba via local bus. The ride is about 30mins from the station and is called prince ski resort. The bus ride is rather exciting, but we opt for the one further away from the town upon reaching the ski resort. It looked like it remained closed. Only a few of the slope is open. So We took the gondola ride to the top of Mr Naeba for sightseeing. 

We took the prince hotel shuttle bus back to echigo yuzawa, collected our bags, and it snowed a bit.

We took the train back to Tokyo station and checked in to our centurion hotel in Akasaka again. 

Day 4 (Klook tour Mt Fuji)

Woke up at 430am, prepared all the things and left the hotel around 0615hrs for Shinjuku by Taxi. It cost us 4k Yen for a short 15mins ride. 

Started around 0715, went to the yeti ski resort and enjoyed the Mt Fuji scenery. We then took a pirate ship ride in Hakone, ropeway, to the owakudani volcano. 

Had lunch on the bus and ended the tour with shopping at the Gotemba outlet. Upon returning to Shinjuku, we had dinner in a German place and walked to a nearby government building. 

Day 5

After intense mode, we have a free and easy day in between. Today was a more relaxing day. We woke up late and headed to Meiji Jingu, a Shinto shrine in Shibuya near Harajuku station. The shrine is located in the Yoyogi part, making the walk to the shrine very enjoyable. We took a stroll around the park. I bought myself a coffee and took some pictures while Jenny went to do some shrine stuff. 

After the Meiji Jingu Shinto shrine visit, we then walked for a bit around Harajuku and found a place for ramen, which is foreigner-family-friendly. We had to leave Jacob outside the restaurant in a stroller. 

After our meal, we took a ride to Hibiya and had a short stop for dessert in Tokyo's midtown Hibiya, which is posh and family-friendly. 

After our nice chocolate dessert, we moved to Odaiba; we took the bus ride with a stroller, which was another experience with Jacob. 

At night we did team lab planet, which was mesmerising. My family enjoyed it. 

We took the bus back to Ginza to shop for a while and headed home. 

Day 6

- Disneyland~ 

Day 7 

Today is another relaxing free, and easy day; we took a train ride to Sunshine city for the mega Pokemon centre, we bought all the stuff for Jayden, and we let him learn more about Pokemon. 

-after our Pokemon adventure, we went to Ginza to shop. I get a chance to experience the Tokyo yonex centre. 

Day 8(Akihabara)

Is when I took my two kids to Akihabara while Jenny and her mum went to sensoji. We took the Ginza line and headed to Akihabara, an electric town and had a quick dip in the anime shop, checked out some maid cafes, and we gathered back together in the Tokyo Pokemon centre DX. We had our lunch, brought our stuff from the hotel and headed towards Narita Airport, Tobu. 

Day 9 

We took a relaxing stroll to the airport terminal at 3 in the morning, bought some souvenirs and had a healthy ramen and took our 4 pm flight back to Singapore 

End of Tokyo trip 2022. 

Success journal 640:connecting with Jenny at night

Have a new interesting routine. 

Skipped my dinner or early dinner 

Badminton till late 

Edit video 

Supplement 

Breathing exercise 

I love exercise 

Connecting with people 

Success journal 639: connecting with people you are comfortable with

Spending time playing badminton is fantastic. I need to take care of my knees. 

Listening to people 

Ask questions 

Connect with Jenny 

Massage her 

Spend time with her 

Sort of the finance 

Eat less 

Drink lemon water 

Take care of my knee 

Grow my hear 

Lose weight 

Eat healthily. 

Edit video 

Invest and read investing notes and connect with people. 

Success journal 638: less on the smash, video myself, investing. More aggressive

Booked four sessions this week for badminton. Down one. So far still good with my knee. Allocating time to exercise is essential for my health. 

Yesterday I burned 1.2k calories 

Connected with Jayden's friend, han's dad, yesterday. We discussed kids during the holiday. 

The market has been bad 

Been planning my trip to Tokyo 

Bought a lot of stuff from shoppee 12 12. 

Connected with Caren for her birthday. 

Connected with a badminton player in toa payoh

Success journal 637: Jenny mum in SG

Jenny's mum is in SG; Jenny is over the moon. 

We had dinner together in Sembawang white noodles at Jewel Friday night. 

On Saturday, we brought her to united square, had breakfast in food court. 

Then lunch, we had chicken rice and ice cream at Celine's. 

Dinner at Daxi vivocity

Success journal 636: 3 workouts per week

I am bumping my badminton to 3 times per week. Love it 

Success journal 635:Grateful for what I have. Family time

Husband, son, and father. Learning how to lead is a lifelong process. 

I need to connect with people and learn from them. 

I am grateful for who I am and who is around me. There are so many tasks and things to learn from people around me. Connect with them deeply. 

I think through badminton, I get to meet more people and learn from them. Love it 

Success journal 634: Volunteering for a cause I believe in

Supplements 

Spent time with my kids 

Comment with them 

Teach them good value 

Bad rest 

Good badminton session 

Feeling good 

Volunteering to things I believe in 

Watch video 

Edit video 

Learn things 

Stay invested 

Connect with the right people 

Success journal 633: Festival of Nation

Stop timing the market. Just buy when the price is good 

I worked till late last Saturday. 

Sunday morning, I went to the jayden rugby festival of nations together with Jenny. 

Spend the whole morning there jayden had a blast. Experiencing how to play rugby. He is not running, so I think he needs more practice 

After rugby, I returned home and prepared for my badminton session in the Joo Chiat community center. Caught up with Shannon, and he offered to fetch me to Bugis MRT after our badminton session; we managed to catch up for a bit on the car about kids and parenthood 

From Bugis, I took the MRT back to novena, picked up Jayden, and went for a meal with Harrod's parents in Ma Maison Takashimaya. We spent like $200 for that meal. 

We shopped around Takashimaya and Jayden read some books there. I am so proud of his love for books. I caught up with Jenny in the bookstore for a bit before we traveled back home via bus. 

A short weekend well spent. 

Success journal 632: too many mistakes

The only way to achieve zero mistake is not to make any progress

Success journal 631: Long weekend with family in SG

Finally, I am getting some proper rest and some quality time with my family 

Friday, 25th November 2022 

On Black Friday went out with Jenny and Jacob to Orchard while sally brought Jayden to a nearby friend's Naomi condo for a swim. 

We had lunch at Wisma atria Koh grill. After our lunch, we then went shopping; I bought myself a theragun and also a Garmin watch, a forerunner 55. We bump into Jenny's ex-colleague in front of Hyatt. It was some of the rare occasions I spent time with Jacob. 

We then pick up some stuff from the far east shopping plaza. After that, we went back home and chilled at home. 

After dinner, we walked to Orchard and bought some stuff from the decathlon. Truly taking advantage of black Friday. 

Saturday, 26th Of November 2022 

Woke up relatively early, tried on our winter clothing and checked everyone was ready for our ski trip in Tokyo. 

After our quick breakfast, I tried to book our Disneyland tickets, but they were unavailable. 

Went to badminton, met a badminton fan and had good fun on the court. After the game, we also chatted about gear and badminton. 

Went back home and got myself ready for the next session. Picnic and kite with HK friends in Marina Barrage. We took a lovely photo.

We had our dinner together on Satay by the bay. 

Sunday, 27th of November 2022 

Woke up early for rugby. Took a taxi to Sentosa, and it was raining. We detoured to Tampines east to chill ag Tampines one over breakfast in Toast Box. 

We then took a taxi to Janice's place.  Connect with them and their family. Love family. 

After our meal, we took a taxi back home and rested. For another session in United square with chai ann and her sister. She treated us to pepperoni pizza. We passed some baby stuff to her sister. 

Success journal 630: bring a friend to badminton

He is very keen to connect. 

Invited him to a session 

I wonder what I can do to make him feel better. 

Connected with Jenny after the badminton and skipped my dinner yesterday. Drank a protein shake. 

Feel better this morning. There is so much live than work 

Success journal 629: Finally a weekend

After pushing to work for the 1st half of the month through the weekend, I finally got a break. 

Saturday 

Woke up around 1830hrs as usual and went to Ikea with the family to look for furniture. We had a beautiful lunch in the cafe. Sitting down and enjoying our family time. 

After that, we went home, and I continued my japan trip booking. 

Had a light dinner with the family at home and headed out to raffles city around 7 pm for JY's birthday. We chilled until late at night. 

Sunday 

I brought Jayden to his rugby, together with Jacob. 

After rugby. I brought him to the Pokemon centre, and I bought myself and Jayden a drink 

We went home for a swim; I brought Jacob to have fun and went to the water too. We then go for a quick lunch, and I took a nap. After a short nap, I started my Japan booking 

After booking our accommodation, we took a taxi to Siloso beach to meet up with lilac and their family. 

Success journal 628: Daily routine

I got off work around 8 pm. Reached home before 9 pm. Had a quick dinner and spent some time with the family in my round until 10 pm. Massage Jenny and I went to bed. 

Called my parents to update them about how I am doing. It is always good to connect with my parents. They have so much love for me 

Jenny bought me a beautiful sports bag for my badminton. It is nice we support each other in what we love. 

Investment world. Warren just invested in a chip company.

Success Journal 627: walk in the neighbourhood

Fragile relationship. I will have to bear with these for a while during a downturn. 

Took a walk with Jenny yesterday and managed to reconcile with her; I skipped my dinner and had a protein shake 

We had a quick morning reconciliation bonding session. 

Success journal 626: Reconciliation with Jenny

After work, I asked Jenny for a drink in the Starbucks reserve near our place. 

She said yes 

I ordered a green frappuccino for myself. 

She didn't drink any. 

We had a great conversation in the coffee house. Life is good 

Success journal 625: Feeling better

Played badminton, left work earlier and supporting spouse. 

Success journal 624: all the efforts to zero

I took a hitch to MRT station, from yck to dhoby ghaut. To eat dinner with Jenny. Everything went smoothly, and it all crumbled when I ordered my drink while Jenny shared her work stuff with me. 

Success journal 623: Routine life

0645 Wake up

0700 Shower and prepare 

0705 out from house 

0712 take a bus 851 to work 

1200 lunch 

1900 Leave from work 

2000 badminton 

2200 leave for work 

2230 reached home 

2330 Sleep 

Success journal 622:assessment

Thanks to the boss for promoting me. Grateful 

Did a great review, and he is trying to pull me up hard. 

Work has been challenging. Below my level is almost non-existent. 

Connected with my dad about badminton yesterday 

Success journal 621: Catching up friends, badminton and my own life

I hope things are not too late; been catching up with friends and myself lately. 

Sunday 

Woke up tidying up my shelf and stuff. Spring cleaning and clearing some of the clothing from my wardrobe. 

Have bread, dinner quick lunch while clearing my bills. 

Met aunty Michelle for lunch and tea. 

We went shopping for a bit in PLQ and Kinex. After that, I went to Joo Chiat for badminton. Forgot to bring shuttles, so can start early. Played a few good rounds with them. We also get to have some exchanges between the games, which is like real friends 

After our game, we went to sushiro and had a good meal and time with my friends. Ted, CCY, Kerwin and CA. 

Success journal 620: Baba

Holding on to my baba at 60++ 

Painful experience 

Keep grinding on

Success journal 619: Me time

Jenny Jayden, and Jacob are in HK. 

Left me at home. Me time. 

After work, I caught up with serene and chai in Chinatown. Serene boyfriend was around. We sat and chatted as we have common interests. 

Success journal 618: Back KK

Saturday Morning 

Booked a taxi and bid farewell to my kids and my wife. Headed to changi and took a flight to KK. 

Touched down at KK around 11 am and went back to the office. Connect with Aunty Jo and Shaun 

We had lunch in ???

After lunch, I drove to a dumpling cafe to meet Anthony and Victor. Catch up with them. Anthony is into NFT and Metaverse, while victor is into the steel business. 

After meeting them, I went home to take a shower. Went to a delicious curry house to have a family dinner. After our dinner, we continued our session in Fook Yuen. 

Went back home and sleep 

Sunday 

Woke up relatively early and chatted with my mum in the living room while waiting for aunty Jo. We then went to Imago for shopping. Mum bought some shoes while I got some sport shirt. 

After that, we drove to inanam for lunch; their fish was fantastic. 

After lunch with my family, I then joined Lisa. They were all in Deus cafe. 

After our catch-up, I went back home to take a shower and then we went for western food at plaza 333 airport restaurant. After our dinner, we then went to Starbucks. 

Monday (Holiday) 

Woke up relatively late and had our lunch at mayflower. After lunch, we drove to Suria and imago for shopping. 

We then have dinner with relatives in Mayflower 

Chill and chatted at home 

Tuesday ( flyday) 

Woke up at 9am, and rushed to airport as I saw the timing wrongly. 

Took the flight at 1140hrs, reached Singapore. Went back home and rest. 

Play badminton for 2 hours in Toa Payoh sports hall. 

Rest. 

Success journal 617: Katy in SG

Left work at 1730hrs 

Jenny was very glad 

Conflict with colleagues and my bosses 

Conflict with my wife in the morning 

Katy stayed in our placed yesterday, she was transiting from Australia to Hong Kong in Singapore. 

We went to Newton food court 

Success journal 616: Going badminton

Was rather stressed out this week, left work around 1830hrs, 

Confused mind 

Success journal 615: Crisis at work NLT

The contractor I was handling damaged NLT and Singtel contractor. Been busy and stressed out about this matter for the past few days 

Back to my life, Jenny has been supportive throughout. 

I explained to Jayden how difficult it is to put a bowl of meal on the table. I brought him to cold storage to learn things and countries. 

He also went to the Pokemon machine to pick up Pokemon cards. He got 2 yesterday. 

Success journal 614: Lum Chang annual dinner & dance

Started my day as usual; work has been better since they assigned 2.5 engineers below me. 

They want a yes man. 

After work, I took a bus home to shower and stuff. 

After getting changed, I headed to Conrad. Level 2. Ballroom. Got myself registered and joined the team. 

It was pleasant, and I connected with other teams from other projects. 

Apparently Lumchang is not taking on any civil projects nowadays. 

Success journal 613: Jennny HOD

She just got a new job. Head of the department and covering Africa region for mondelez. Happy for her. 

We celebrated in Newton food centre after my badminton session. 

Cut down on my carbs yesterday. 

Success journal 612: Fetching Jenny from bus stop

Seems like our night walk has been relatively regular. I fetched Jenny from the bus stop or met station recently. 

It is about a 5 to 10 mins walk, and the connection was deep. 

Success journal 611: Grumpy

Very grumpy night. Maybe because the market is not doing well and my portfolio dropped quite a bit 

Success journal 610: Environment changes people

I believe in the environment and the people around me. 

The idea is to spend time with people I admire and go places I love. 

Save money for investment 

Success journal 609: every cent counts

I have to control my budget. 

Keep it very, very tight. 

Like how I watch my weight which I think I have failed, I need to tighten it and build healthy habits. 

Yesterday I left work early so I could spend more time with my family. 

I took a bus and left around 4 pm. Reached home around 430pm. We then leave the house for Sentosa Palawan beach for the heart event. Tickets from Allen. 

They barricaded the area and set up a few tents around for activities for the family. I wish we could have spent more time together as a family for live performances, painting and smell activities. They also provided some buns and drinks. 

After the activities, we then took the monorail and went back to vivocity. 

We had KFC in vivocity, about 20++ for the family, which is very affordable. We started this thought together as a family to save every single cent we could so we could buy a 2m property. Our goals just got bigger and bigger over time. It's good and aligns the family to saving money mode. There is a limit to how much we can save. 

After our meal, we took public transport back home. 

Success journal 608: Saturday family day

Woke up at 0730hrs. Had a coffee in the morning while Jayden had his breakfast. 

We then went to Jacob Ballas; it was ok initially, but then people started to come in, and coaches' crowded the park. 

We left the park immediately. We had our breakfast at McDonald's. Rather a rare occasion. Bought some stuff from cold storage, and we went back home. 

I cook instant noodles for the family. It was rather satisfying. We then took a nap and went to the orchard to meet Catherina and her sister Eddie. 

Initially, the situation is a bit tense, but then it was alright after a few runs, rides and cakes. 

After our cake time in baker brew, we then bid farewell to them and went to Takashimaya. 

The shopping scene is overwhelming. Jenny bought a Japanese brand of shoes for work. 

I left for badminton in Sengkang right after she bought her shoes. 

I played badminton until 2200hrs and took a cab home which cost me $18. 

Had my late meal, connected with Jenny and slept at 0030hrs. 

Success journal 607: Give

Learning to give. Attended company social events the day before. Connect with the team. Then they asked me to take up more roles. 

Left my work slightly late yesterday. 

Went to my routine badminton in Pek Kio. Had fun with them. 

After my badminton, I walked back home to save money and time. 

Took a quick shower and had my dinner. 

Connect with Jenny 

Rest. Love the day

Success journal 606: Connecting with my colleagues summer house Seletar

I left work around 6 pm. Seems like my work is pissing a lot of stakeholders.

trying to kill those part 

Letting some steam off 

Today will be doing badminton 

Connecting with my family in the morning 

Taking supplement and stay invested during uncertainty 

Success journal 605: Starbucks to RB

Starting small 

I am now cutting my drinks from my lunch to save some money and health. 

We have also changed our celebratory drinks from Starbucks to RB bubble tea with 30% sugar. That is a great 30% savings. Love it. 

Resumed my trading account after all the hoohah

Success journal 604: connecting with badminton mates and leaving work at 7pm

I was invited to join a last minute badminton session group with chai ann's friends 

It was great fun. 

I also went to church in the morning to connect with God and relax myself 

Pushing up. I am telling my superior about the team spirit. Seems like pushing us 

I am losing control with my diet. Constantly feeling hungry. 

Taking my supplements 

Read a story for my son 

Wave good bye at him 

Highlighted to Jenny about saving 

Success journal 603: October 2022 grateful post

I am glad I got a hobby now. Looking at life differently. 

Grateful for my family's support. 

Grateful for Jenny's love, support and understanding. 

Connect with people on a deeper level. 

Taking my health more seriously. 

Looking at investment during my free time. 

Preparing the mindset for recession. 

Be more confident. 

I need to address my finance ASAP. Been staying in the negative territory for a while. Especially with all the trips recently 

Success journal 602: Working late

When the will power is being wear off. I tend to eat. 

Yesterday I worked until 10pm. And decided to buy myself a KFC meal. Damn

Success journal 601: Family day and connecting with my secondary friends

Wake up with Jenny having neck pain. I took Jayden to school, brought Jacob to buy some croissants from Kamome and let Jacob play in the playground. 

Connecting with him and stuff. He prefers the mat floor to the grass. 

He can climb up the red slides now

I then brought him back home and had breakfast with Jenny. 

After my breakfast, I took a taxi to Charles's wedding. Haven't seen them for ages. Good to connect with them again. 

Brief solemnisation in private patio had lunch in a nearby ramen place. 

After that, I did some groceries and brought them home via taxi. 

After they are awake, I then fetch Jayden from Chinese class. I brought Jacob with me. Saw Jayden with another boy called han in the Chinese class. 

I brought rugby and also badminton to Thomson playground so that they could burn some energy. 

I met Han and his dad; his dad came to chat with me. We did a good solid chat for a while. It was mind-opening to understand people's strategies. He also mentioned that he knew some people who pulled strings so their kids could get in. 

After our conversation, I quickly share it with Jenny. 

After our meal, we went to velocity to accompany Jenny for her neck treatment. She sprained her neck after an intense sport yesterday. At the same time, I hang out with Jayden. Spent some excellent one-to-one sessions with him. We went to read some books in a bookstall. 

After our 

Success journal 600: Things that matters

Booked a flight back home during Deepavali in October alone. Love it 

Played badminton yesterday with a friend I met on Wednesday. 

This morning I worked on the receipts and expenses. 

Success journal 599: meeting people and socialise

Left work at 1840hrs, badminton, and connected with people in the game with the same interest. 

After my game, I walked home. Feeling exhausted and happy 😁  

Had a heated argument with my superior yesterday. 

Success journal 598: Network is networth

I am glad I have got badminton as a tool to meet friends and connect with them. 

Yesterday after work I went to toa payoh Safra. I played badminton with Serene's friend. It was good 

Connected with new friends who love badminton 

Success journal 597: half day off to support my family

I seldom take off for my kids, despite all the childcare leave, which I used while my helper was not around. 

Yesterday I took half day of annual leave to bring Jacob to his vaccination in toa payoh

We sent Jayden to school and called a taxi to the polyclinic. I took the queue number with my phone. Pushing the limit of technology. 

When we reached the polyclinic, our queue number was on the missed list. Waited for a while. 

Jacob had a low-temperature fever in the morning. The nurse nearly rejected us for the immunisation jab. MMR dose one and chicken pox dose 1. 

He took one jab on each of his shoulders. The immunisation cost zero as he is a Singaporean. How lovely. 

Took a taxi home and took Jacob to Thomson playground. He was very cheerful and played with himself. He also learned how to stand and clapped his hands. 

When is around 1045hrs, I went to fetch Jayden.

Along the way, we chatted, which was very entertaining. We went to United Square, and I bought some bread for him. He wanted breadtalk instead of the proofer. Damn boy. I bought breadtalk for him. 

We walked home and had lunch together. Left for work around 1230hrs 

I left work around 7 pm, took a bus back and reached home to join the family at home around 1930hrs. Connected with Jenny while I was having my shake and also an avocado meal. 

We chatted for the rest of the day and slept.

Success journal 596: 15 supplement per day

Muslim 8nos, hair growth 4nos, omega 3 2nos, men vit 1noz. Take care! 

Success journal 595: Badminton session

I was dragging the game. 

80%but you control the shuttle rather then 100% but in no direction 

Success journal 594: Running to a bus stop

A 37 year old man carrying a bag, a bottle with ice running on his crocs to a bus stop. That is me. 

I need to keep this vision in mine.my neighbour, which we were best friends younger. Build 30 stores in the whole Malaysia. 

Success journal 593: learning from the western culture working mum

It is liberating and mind blowing to learn from the western culture. I feel like I need to step up

I left work like 7pm yesterday. 

Success journal 592: KK weekend trip, Teo wedding

Thursday 08/09

Took a morning flight from Sg to KK via scoot. Woke up at 0530hrs and left the house around 0615hrs. Reached the airport around 0645hrs. Checked in swiftly and tried to order some Starbucks for breakfast. A bit too tight, and gave up. We went for boarding around 0745hrd and took the flight to KK 

Rd KK and saw my mum waiting next to a column. Perhaps she has been waiting for too long. We sent Jenny back home as she got an interview with M. While we continued our lunch in Wong Kwok and my parents took care of Jacob. 

After our lunch, we went back home to take a quick nap. 

We then went to the Japanese restaurant Nagasaki for our dinner. They gave us a VIP room 

Friday 09/09

Woke up relatively late. Had to breakfast at a nearby restaurant near Lisa's place called Guo li. The coffee is good. We met bona Mother. She was very cheerful, and she heard about Jayden and Jacob. We took a photo together. She invited my mum to dance. 

After breakfast, we went to the Shangrila hotel to hang out. Jenny loved the place. After taking some lovely photos in the resort, we went to my dad's office to hang out. We had lunch together with my mum in the office. After our car broke down. We went to Imago for a quick shopping and bought some milk powder, Jacob. We then went straight to Pound for Jacob's birthday celebration. We got a VIP room. We played a while in the room, and Jacob had loads of fun. The food was good and beyond my expectation. 

Saturday 10/09

Walk central in the morning. 

Breakfast at a nearby dim sum place. Lok Tien, after our breakfast, we dropped everyone in the office, and we went to Shangrila beach hotel for a couple massage.  It was excellent and relaxing, but too bad I slept most of the time. The massage cost us like $760 for two and a half hours. Which we think is a good deal. 

After our massage, we went to Suria to shop, returned home, and prepared for the wedding. 

I Met Lisa and Foh and also some other friends in KK. Drank some beer and drove back home safely. 

Sunday 10/09

Woke up in the morning and walked major together with Jenny and Jayden. They enjoyed it. 

Jayden and my dad continued their mango plucking experience. They loved it. We went for a 33 for breakfast; it was slightly rushed as my dad was having his meeting at ten, and my mum wanted my dad to join us. After our meal, we rushed to Suria for our last-minute shopping. I dropped off my parents, and I bought sunglasses, and Jenny got a dress herself. We did the usual purchase in Watson and guarding. I bumped into Lowsai and his Wife in Watson. Low sai said he would join me at the airport around 6 pm. We left suria in a very rushed manner to join my brother and also my dad in tung fun restaurant. They served charming meals. After our meal, we went to Bataras while my parents went home with the kids. We did our last shopping. 

Went home and packed. We brought like 10kilos of mango. We left home for the airport around 5 pm and met up with Nicholas at the airport for a short catch-up. My brother has been very supportive in taking care of us this round as he gets closer with jayden and Jacob. 

Jayden cried when we bid farewell at the gate. 

Writing this blog on a flight. Xoxo

Success journal 591: standing firm on my ground

Standing on my ground myself

Arranged a game for myself 

Arranged a time for myself 

My hobby invest, badminton and videography 

Success journal 590: TV meal

I left work around 7 pm and told Jenny that I would join her for dinner at home. 

I reached home slightly earlier than her and took a shower while Sally was preparing the meal. 

We did Netflix and chill. 

Relationships goals :) 

Success journal 589: Short be good weekend with friends and family

I was on my Saturday shift; XX fetched me for lunch in blk 202. Together with Wong and Dan. Great to catch up with colleagues. So many rumours and updates within the office. 

I left work around 5 pm. Joined CCY and Chaiann; they are all for badminton in Joo Chiat cc. Slowly finding my sweet spot in badminton. Love it. 

After our badminton, we went to Obi obi. A Japanese drinking house nearby. 

After our meal, I took the bus with Serene to Changi terminal 1. Serene left just before the terminal 1 bus stop and headed home, while I continued my journal to terminal 1. To fetch Jenny and Jayden. The reached around 2310hrs, got out around 2350hrs. We reached hone around 0030hrs and slept around 0100hrs. 

Sunday 

Had breakfast with Jenny in Kamome Bakery, spent around $15. Catch up with life and stuff. She remains interesting and beautiful. Xoxo 

After our bakery breakfast, we rested at home while I brought Jayden out to vivocity. We went to the library, pet shop and timezone. We had lunch in food court. 

Came home for a nap. 

Went out for dinner with Chai ann they all for  kok tien celebration. Left around 9 pm and joined Jenny for the rest of the night. 

Success journal 588: Connecting with my self

I think it is essential for me to connect with myself once in a while. Yesterday I left work around 1830hrs for badminton in PKCC. It was a good session, and I am slightly more relaxed. Played a better game. 

After game I walked slowly back home. 

Success journal 587: Bucket list spending time with my parents in Singapore. Grateful

Grateful for spending time with them. They landed last Saturday while I was at work.

Day  1 (Saturday)

I left work around 3 pm and met them in the orchard for a quick coffee. We then went for dinner in Hai Di Lao together with Jayden and Jenny. Aunt Michelle stayed overnight at our place. 

Day 2 (Sunday)

Woke up with the house being very crowded. Jenny and Jayden left the house for the airport, and I brought them to Kamome Bakery for breakfast. 

Went back home for a bit before we resumed our journey to Orchard for shopping. We brought Jacob with us. We had dim sum in Yi Dian Xin paragon. Collected the moon cake from paragon

I also brought them to the Japanese departmental store. Of course, we stopped for a toast box in between

We ended our day in Tang Plaza. Had our dinner in the food court 

Day 3 (Monday) 

Bus 518 day. We took the bus to raffles hotel. Spent some time hanging around there. 

Had our lunch in a food court in raffles city. Walked to Suntec

We also went to the fountain of wealth. Bought some groceries from Giant and brought them home. 

We invited aunty Michelle to our place for dinner. 

Day 4 (Tuesday) (30th august) 

We brought Jacob to the playground. We met a new 11months old baby called Avery with his father. Had a good game on the tossing game. 

We didn't bring Jacob out today. 

We had lunch in Jumbo Ion orchard. Ordered a crab for my dad. He loved it. 

We then went to bacca coffee. Aunty Michelle treated us. We ordered a blue mountain Jamaican coffee, which cost us around $63 per pot 

After that, we had our dinner in Tanjong Pagar hanging bbq. 

Day 5 (Wednesday)

I brought them to Thomson playground. 

Breakfast at Yakun.

We went to the URA building and brought them on a tour of planning Singapore. 

Had our lunch in Kafe utu. They loved it. 

After our lunch, I brought them to vivocity for shopping. 

We had dinner in Tam Zai Sam Gor. Took a taxi home and had some alcoholic drinks at home before we slept. 

Day 6 (Thursday)

They packed all their stuff and were ready to leave. I booked a taxi for them 

Success journal 586: Intermediate players yay!

Left work around 1830hrs, took 851 and went straight to badminton in Pek Kio Community Centre. It was a session for intermediate. 

Was a bit nervous but it was ok. 

Success journal 585: movie night and instant noodles with Jenny

We went to visit lee in Yishun, he broke his arm. 

Went back late and had a quick dinner. Took my shower and Jenny invited me for supper. We had supper while watching working mum on Netflix in our living room. Love it.

Success journal 584: Dialogue with bosses

Seou and Crist asked for a conversation. 

About disturbing subcons bosses 

About energy 

About low morale 

Success journal 583: waited for 33min.

Left work around 1830hrs. Took a bus to Amk interchange and rode to Dhoby Ghaut to new Jenny. 

Work wasn't pleasant today 

And when I reached dhoby ghaut around 1910hrs, I called Jenny, but she didn't answer. I went straight to Muji and queued at the restaurant. Not a big fan of queueing and hated when I queued alone. Very unproductive. After queuing for a while, I got a nice seat. I called Jenny, but she didn't answer. Waited for another 10mins, not feeling well with my stomach and I left. Upset. It was around 1943hrs. I waited for about 33mins in total and I am upset with Jenny. 

Life is tough 

Success journal 582: Half past six

Damn this word. 

Success journal 581: numbering it

Love the idea where I numbered by post. Wake up with all the routines. Planning to go to Seoul with the family at year-end. 

Utilising my child care leave for my parent's trip to Singapore. I will start planning places to go in Singapore 🇸🇬  

There are some places on my list, and I would like to bring them. Casino, haidilao, African cuisine. 

Success journal 580: Spending time with my boys in the morning

Woke up around 0630hrs. Jenny called and she was upset because Sally and Jayden hugged. 

I guided Jayden to somersault in the morning and hugged Jacob. Love it. 

Success journal 579: Roomalone

I tend to start my blog with jenny. Seems like I have built a life surrounding her. Maybe not that healthy. Need to change to 1st person and more things about myself and the things I love to do. 

Badminton, videography, property and stock investing. I need to keep reminding myself 

Success journal 578: left home early and connect with Jenny via phone

Jenny is working overseas in Vietnam. She is staying in a fancy hotel 🏨  

I left work around 1830hrs. 

Reached home and connected with Jenny over the phone. Recovering from all the rushing days 

Need to have the discipline to work on things that matter 

Investment, self-improvement, badminton, and video editing. Focus on treating people nicely and love friends around you. I have also downloaded an app meet-up to arrange badminton at least once weekly.

Success journal 577: Proper weekend

Saturday 

Woke up late. Stay resourceful and connect with the family. Had breakfast together with Jayden. I accompany Jenny to EMS. We took the bus and went to the river valley. Jenny did the session while I waited for her. Get to spend some me time there. 

After that, I was called back for work. Had a bit of lunch with family. 

Went back to work for a bit and went for badminton. It was great, and I met two new friends. Jimmy and Edison. 

After our badminton session, I joined the bbq in Mona's place. Spent the night with hong kong families. I played badminton with Cedric on a tennis court. Hahaha

Sunday 

Woke up late too, and spent some time on the bed watching badminton videos and BBT. Tidy up things at home and go out for brunch with Jenny's friends. After our brunch, we came home for a nap and continued to hang out with Kamin and yuyen at Kamin's place. 

I won the last night. :) 

Success journal 576: Jason intention

12/08/22

Jason's Intention 

*MIND*

1. Raise my standards 

2. Change my limiting belief, Model what works 

3. To read and write on the bus 

4. Spend less than I earn and invest the difference, build an income machine together with Jenny

5. To buy businesses during the crisis and below value

6. To detach emotions from investment

*HEALTH*

- Drink Lemon water

- Salad Meal 

- Intermittent fasting for more than 16 hours without food. 8 pm to 12nn

- Take a Cold shower

-  2 litres of water

- To achieve 68kg, 17% fat. to stabilise my weight and lifestyle

- To drink apple cider vinegar every day

- Rebounding to feel good 

- To eat slowly 

*WEALTH*

- To hold stocks, to buy good businesses

- To listen to books' podcast

- To put money into FFA every day for compounding interest ($4.3m)

- To invest in my FFA account every month

- To connect with investors (Online and offline) via investing note 

- To get a Passive income of SGD$18k monthly to bring joy to my immediate family

- To read annual reports before buying stocks. 

- To connect/network with people with the same interest online and offline 

- Cash is trash

*PROPERTY INVESTMENT*

-To monitor properties in Singapore

-To prepare a 400k downpayment by 2023

- To find the next property course to attend with Jenny/Shaun 

*RELATIONSHIP*

- Prioritizing the relationship with Jenny, listening to her needs, communicating with her closely

- To connect with my parents weekly

- To align my long-term goals with Jenny's. Every quarter review in a fancy restaurant. 

- To apologise even is not my fault, to love unconditionally.

- To spend quality time with Jenny 

- To run/walk with Jenny around the neighbourhood

- Acts of Service is Jenny's love language. 

- To Massage her as much as I can

*SELF-DEVELOPMENT*

- To work on gratitude journal- post on Blog spot

- To read the intention card daily with Jayden and take massive action together 

- To watch motivating videos on youtube every day

- To create a positive ritual at the start of the day. I.e., To sleep by 2300hrs and wake up by 0600hrs. I.e. Read and rebounding 

- To publish content online every week

*JAYDEN & JACOB*

- To go out together once a week. Schedule it 

- To swim at least once a week 

- To go kids' Gym 

- To read a story for them before sleep 

- To send Jayden to schicida

Success journal 575: Holiday blue

Worked late yesterday, but I did rest well. Had light dinner 

I am going to be attending a workshop tonight 

Writing this on a bus, and seems like with all this journal thing. I seem to have learned more things and am very careful with my work now. At least complete one thing at a time.

Work seems to be relaxed. Peace over progress 

Success journal 574:Long weekend with my family and my Mother in KL

Day 1 6/8/2022 Saturday 

We chose KL for our Singapore long weekend holiday. Booked a MAS flight for the family, and we met my mother at the airport. We flew last Saturday afternoon and reached KL around 1630hrs. Met my mother around 1700hrs, and we picked up the car and went straight for Hokkien mee in old Klang road. 

After that, we checked in our chick hotel in KL Central called the loft. The decoration is very hip, and they even got a play area for the kids near the booking place. 

Best of all, they get a complimentary mini-bar for us. We spent our night together chit-chatting and taking care of Jacob. 

Day 2. 7/8/2022 Sunday 

We woke up and looked for the dim sum from Google, and I found the jing Xuan dim sum. The dim sum was terrible and not cheap. We spent like 100++, and it was entirely not worth it. My mum shared with me that my snoring woke up Jacob earlier while he was sleeping next to me. 

After our terrible breakfast, we then went shopping in mid valley. According to Jenny, it was a complete waste of time. 

We had a nice lunch in antipodean. 

After lunch, we returned to the hotel, took a nap, and ventured around KL for good food. We went sek yuen restaurant, and it was lovely. My mum picked up the bill. Jacob was a darling, and the table full of youngsters next to us was having fun with him. 

After our delicious dinner, we went to drive around KL and stopped at Bukit Bintang for a quick milk powder run. 

That is the end of our day 2. 

Day 3 8/8/2022 Monday 

Genting highland day trip- We started our journey from Genting around 9 am; we all packed in a Nissan and drove a 45mins ride from the kl center to the Awana station. Booked all my tickets in the morning with klook; their vouchers are direct entry tickets, which were hassle-free. 

We reached the Genting Highlands Premium Outlet around 10 in the morning. We then quickly took a cable ride to Sky Avenue. I love the weather. It was good. I could spend more time in Genting Highlands, although the pricing here is almost like Singapore. 

Jayden was very excited. I didn't get to spend much time with my mum when I got two kids around me. All of us are. I'm just too busy to connect. Going through the motion. 

We spent the whole day in Genting chilling, eating, and spending time in the indoor theme park. I bought four tickets which I should not. Should have just bought two as we can walk around the indoor theme park with jayden. So the other tickets are not necessary. 

After playing those rides, we took our cable car back to Awana Station for shopping. I was in charge of taking care of Jacob while Jenny went shopping with my mum and Jayden. There was an l

The playground there, and Jacob and I spent our time there playing with other kids. It was a joy to spend time with him.

After  that we had a bit of drama having dinner there. We end up having marry brown chicken as they don't have non-spicy chicken and burger king burgers. We then drove back to KL and called it a day. I seem to have an issue with the ordering part. Maybe I am more of a person without much consideration while making choices, or I am just not picky about my food. I should raise my standard because when I don't care, people will give me shit. 

Day 3 9/8/2022 Tuesday 

Fly day- We woke up at 0730hrs. Packed our things and got ready. We then checked out from the hotel. The hotel overcharged us for 40% of the total bill. Jenny settled that with their management, and they honored the bill. 

I dropped them off in the departure gates and I went to drop off the car. Said goodbye to my mother as she is going to KLIA 2 and we boarded our plane back to Singapore. 

Success journal 573: Newton Food Centre

Long day for me as my team is struggling with feedback from residents. 

Left work around 8 pm. Reached home around 9 pm. Got a call from Jenny, and she invited me to join her at Newton Food center. She said hup kee serve the nice oyster omelet 

We spent sgd30 for the night, including a bottle of Asahi for myself. Would love to go again. 

I will have an incoming of 50k ringgit. 

Now is to take care of my health. Stay active and eat healthily 

Success journal 572: Consistency, not a robot and flu

Even my robot would ask me to maintain him now. Mr. Marvel our latest addition gadget to the family that helps to sweep our floor and mop once a day. It would request to clean its sensors periodically.

I have been snoring badly, probably because I gained much weight during covid. 

Tired and didn't sleep well

Success journal 571: Connecting with my family

Feeling in control, work had some drama yesterday. The tech team went all in to fight for the endorsement. 

I am in between. Not much say when it comes to drawing endorsement. 

I think I need to be more precise and have a better memory. Don't let others put words into my mouth. 

Back home, around 8pm++, I had dinner and spent some time with my family. 

Slept at around 10 pm.

Success journal 570: Rules of power

Power is a dark art; it took me a while to understand its importance. Looking at my situation at home, being accommodating and understanding is not for the long run as my kids disrespect me. Start reading rules about power. To gain some power and control in life. A great reminder. 

Success journal 569: Connected with friends and also jayden great-aunt weekend

Had a long weekend. It was good as we got more team members to cover the job now. 

Saturday was a transition for the weekend. I got jade seng to cover the site duty. 

In the morning we had breakfast together with my boy, then we played some piano together. After that, we sent Jayden to a Piano lesson in United square. Jenny and I went for a quick lunch in Shanghai Tang; we ordered xiao long bao and sheng Jian bao. 

After our quick lunch, we then went to fetch Jayden. Took away some chicken rice for him to bring home. Upon reaching home, we went for a quick swim in the pool. It was so relaxing. Jacob joined the fun. After our quick swim, we then took a nap. After my nap, I then pack my badminton stuff and left home for Joo Chiat cc. I went for badminton in Joo Chiat around 1630hrs. They are chai and friends. I only know William. He seems very friendly and pleasant. 

Ended the session around 1830hrs and left home. Reached home around 2000hrs. We had chicken Karage for dinner. 

After our meal, I just hung around and slept. 

Sunday morning, we had pancakes for breakfast. I went to church and donated $50. The message is about money which I find boring apart from the spent 15m per year on their expenses. 

I then walked to Teresa lam place, as the kids had a playdate together. I made a video about them here 

It was fun to spend time together with the kids. The place is fantastic. Love it. 

After our playdate with Teresa and Emily, we quickly changed and took a bus to the orchard. We were on time, found a place and had our lunch with grand-aunt Michelle. 

We walked for a few hours in Orchard, and everyone was exhausted. Had some tea and cake in Dal Kom and we went back home. 

Had steamboat for dinner and called it a day.

My weight is 87.3kg

success journal 568: connecting with myself

I am me. I write about myself and things that I encounter daily. Work 💼 place has got some issue. Trust is not there, or communication is not there 

Seems like it is not easy to build trust. 

Success journal 567: Dancing with jayden and Jacob in the morning

Left work around 8 pm. Reached home around 9 pm. 

Had my meal and followed up with a bit of work.

Connected with Jenny, and we watched a movie together and slept. 

I was snoring quite severely, and she couldn't sleep. She was distraught in the morning, and I said sorry to her. 

After preparing myself to work, I then brought Jacob to our room. Jayden followed. Jayden did some somersault on our bed, and we started dancing to the music waka by Shakira. It was excellent and fun. Lifted the mood in the morning. 

Recently, we booked a trip to Kuala Lumpur with the family, and my mum is joining us too. We get to speak more together because this trip is excellent and fun. 

I also invited aunty Michelle to have a meal together this coming Sunday in Orchard, and she agreed. Looking forward to it. 

Success journal 566: connecting with my self.Big money will take big energy

I left work around 7 pm yesterday, connecting with myself at home and recharging. Locked the door and spent the night with me. Jenny came back relatively late, and we watched a movie together. 

Identify is rather important to me. Who I want to become is more important. Rich, badminton and videography. 

I skipped my meal yesterday as I was feeling full. 

Learn a bit making big money need big energy. 

Success journal 565: reignite our relationship

Left work at 1830hrs, took the bus 851 to boat quay. I asked Jenny to eat together in a Korean restaurant on the boat quay. 

We ordered a set meal, a jajiamien, seafood noodles and padak fried chicken.  

It was slightly too much for both of us, and I took away the seafood noodles. 

The ambient was good, Jenny shared her story at work, and I listened to it while eating my meal. We were in a rush, to be honest. Didn't get to enjoy the scenery. 

It was an excellent place to chill. Love it. 

After our meal, we then took mrt back to Novena. We reached home around 2130hrs. 

Love the amount of time we are spending together. 

Success journal 564: weekend post

I worked on Saturday. Left work early and had my dinner at home. 

After my quick dinner, I took public transport to the Sengkang sports hall for a badminton session with colleagues. 2 hours session. Good workout. Looking forward to another round this week. After our session, I took a taxi back for $20. Reached home around 1030hrs and spent some time with Jenny before I slept. 

Woke up at 0830hrs, feeling recharged; we spent some time preparing at home and took bus no 5 to wonderful world city to have brunch with the hong kong group, Alex and his family, Theresa's family and Emily. Three families 👪 gathering in with cafe. 

Alex gave me a big hug when we met. 

After our meals, we took a groupie together and we went home for a nap. 

Took a short swim after our nap and had simple dinner. 

Jenny and I went for a walk in Robertson quay, we wanted to hang out in publico for a drink, but it was fully booked. We then walked to Clark quay and had green tea parfait in one of the Japanese stores. 

After our bonding session, we took a bus back home and continued our bonding session. Seems like having two kids, these bonding session has been scarce. 

It was a good weekend. Love it. 

Success journal 563: Connecting with Jenny

We had lunch together in the subway and spent about $27. One foot long and a six inchmeal. 

Love the meal and the connection midday. After our meal, she took an 851 back home. 

I left work around 1830hrs. Will build the momentum. 

Spent time with my kids 

Success journal 562: Working Late

Don't compromise my family life for work. 

I was slightly late yesterday; Jenny was a bit upset about why am I late. 

We had snacks together, skipped my dinner and watched stranger things together. 

Did some chit-chat and went to bed. 

I should leave at 1830hrs and work later. 

Success journal 562: Date night with Jenny in AMK

Love the vibe and the momentum. So much love and I think it is because I am less busy. 

Left work around 1830hrs yesterday. Catch up with Jenny in yakiniku Go in the AMK hub. 

We had dinner together and chit-chatted happily like a date. 

Explained to her that connections are critical and how my working altitude had changed 

After our meal, we went for bubble tea together. After our bubble tea, we went home together by train and connected. 

I worked for a while, and we watched stranger things together. 

Success journal 561: Welcoming home early

I left work around 1830hrs, reached home around 1900hrs and had dinner together with jenny and Jayden. 

After our meal we watched stranger things together in the living room. I had beer and chocolate. Lovely. 

Had a good sleep. Feeling so warm to be able to spend time with the family on workday 

Success journal 560: Connecting with people and Sunday budget

Sunday morning, went to church and connect with myself and Jesus. The session was rather boring with the pastor. But one thing I learn is to knock and the door shall open. Perhaps I will want to check what is out there. Donated $50. 

Law of attractions. 

After the church session, I brought jayden to merlion. We took bus to Funan, and walked to merlion. Took one photo and went back to Funan for McDonald's . He wanted cheeseburger and nuggets. I spent $20 for the meal with him. Love the moment we bond over meal. He got so much things to share with me and I find it entertaining. We talked almost about everything. Learn things one at a time. 

After our meal, i dropped Jayden back to home and went straight to Vivocity to meet Jenny. I reached there slightly earlier and spent some time in the library with myself, and a short nap 😄 

We then went for a meal in tam zhai Sam gor. Spent around $22 for the meal. Their noodles are getting expensive and portion is smaller now. We didn't order any drink and will get use to it. 

After our meal, we went to grab some food from NTUC and took a grab to Lucy place. That was $7 

We then spent the evening there in her place and chill for the night. There was like 10 of us. 

Took a gojek back which is around $20.40

In total we spent like $120.40 for a Sunday. 

Success journL 559: a joy ride with Jayden on a Bus

I got home early today, had dinner and took 518 together with Jayden. 

On the bus we chit chatted and enjoy the night view of Marina Bay sands, helix Bridge and flower domes.

I miss our bus stop and we ended up in Bedok. 

From Bedok, we got off and walked to the opposite bedok reservoir and took a 518 back home. 

Reached home around 9pm and tuckef jayden to sleep. 

Jenny brought me a durian dessert from ah chew . How sweet of her. We spent some time chatting and slept. 

Success journal 558: Connect with myself

Had lunch with Loi and he passed me the milk powder. Seems like he got intention to let me to invest in his business. 

Took a taxi home with thr milk powder. Will work late tonight 

Edited videos and watchef netflix for the night my own. 

Success journal 557: home early

Left work earlier. Spent time connecting with jenny. Love it 

Success journal 556: Away from the city

We, Jenny Jayden and I, went for a two nights short trip to Bintan with Gerda, Martin, and Alexandra. On Saturday morning, we took the ferry from Tanah Merah terminal and left around 12noon. Reached there around 2 pm and checked into the room. I bought the welcome drink for all of us. 

We then joined the foam party in the pool and chilled. The pool is packed. After our foam party, we spent the rest of the time on the beach, letting the kids play with sand. 

We took a shower in our room and got changed for buffet dinner. Jayden stayed in their room overnight 

Day 2 

We woke up around 8 am and had breakfast together. Chilled by the pool. Met Steven and Leslie with their kids. They are leaving soon, so we didn't get to sit down together to mingle. After they left, we then moved to the beach to chill. I played my boomerang with another kid from the states. 

After the beach session, we had our lunch and moved on to the massage session in the banyan tree resort. It is a lot quieter there, and the Balinese massage was good. Gerda managed to get a 50% discount for the massage, which was good. We then went to the hilltop massage to pick up Alexandra and Jayden. The hotel staff cared for them while their mothers went for their massage sessions. 

We asked the staff if we could use the pool near the beach and the saffron restaurant. They allowed us as we had massage and dinner in the Banyan tree resort. It was so quiet we saw the monitor lizard. After Jenny and Gerda were done with their massage, we returned to our room to get changed for tonight's dinner in a Banyan tree resort restaurant. 

The Indonesian cuisine was not too bad apart from being too spicy for others. We spent like $310 on the meal, which was not cheap. 

After our meal, we played badminton together and went to our hotel room to sleep. 

Day 3

I had a quick breakfast and some reading. Took the shuttle bus to the terminal and headed back to Singapore. Relax for a bit and plan for my next trip. 

Success journal 555: Learn Saying no

 I think I am hitting another person's KPI more than my own. Have to say no 

After work, I went to Plaza Singapore to meet her. We had dinner together in Nando. Ordered their new spicy flavour. 

We chit-chatted and took a bus home. Slept through the night 

Success journal 554: Sunday duty

 I am 37 this year, and I still have to work on Sunday.

Yesterday I reached the office around 8 am and conducted a toolbox meeting. My safety jumped because my supervisors did not reach me on time. After the meeting, I went to the office, and my client started to bombard me with questions. 

Walked around the site and went to the jubilee centre for lunch and nearby for a haircut. Came back office to sort out some paperwork and left work around 5 pm. 

Reached home, took a quick shower, and had dinner with my family. 

Took a bath with Jayden. Slept with him around 8 pm and watched stranger things 2 with Jenny.